Daddy/Daughter roleplay fantasy

Dec 29, 2013 at 06:06 AM

Does anyone find this an ok thing, I know guys who say they do it with their wife or girlfriend but don't talk about because they think some people would find it really weird and if you are into that, you must be twisted, but these guys talk openly about sex and fantasies and say nothing is better then her saying 'oh daddy, i love you daddy' as they have sex hard, some of these guys say it even makes them stay hard for longer than normal. Where do they draw the line though? One told me he even gets his girlfriend to dress like a teen, and gets pigtails put in her hair etc, wear a school uniform, that too weird??

Yoda · Dec 29, 2013 at 07:21 AM

I guess it is a personal thing as all fetishes and role playing is but that fantasy is not one I could enjoy. My exBF and I used to enjoy watching porn as foreplay but one video that we rented was the daddy/daughter fantasy (both looked adult age though). We were both so turned OFF that we did not even finish watching the video and took it right back to the rental store. Not a turn on for us.

I had a short plaid 'schoolgirl' skirt I wore for him sometimes but that was different.

danvb · Dec 29, 2013 at 07:53 AM

There is NOTHING about ANY kind of fantasy that is weird... so long as it stays a fantasy and it doesn't hurt anyone.

To each their own.

However, I'm afraid I would consider it to be way more than weird if it wasn't fantasy roleplaying and was actually a Daddy/Daughter situation instead. I'm pretty darned sure that that's crossing a line that should never be crossed.

healingme4me · Dec 29, 2013 at 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by DylanP

Where do they draw the line though? One told me he even gets his girlfriend to dress like a teen, and gets pigtails put in her hair etc, wear a school uniform, that too weird??

They draw the line with mutually agreed upon 'safe words/gestures' I'd hope. Fetishism, role play, isn't weird, it's a part of life, for many.

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LiteraryLark · Dec 29, 2013 at 03:07 PM

This is one of the most common fantasies out there. Very normal.

Speedy Gonzales · Jan 21, 2014 at 08:45 PM

An ex girlfriend of mine used to refer to herself as 'mommy' during sex which the first time made me take a staggered step backwards and I almost fell over a coffee table, but I soon overcame that in my mind. It never did anything for me, but she used to like to play that role sometimes so I just went along with it. I didn't see the harm as long as it was just a fantasy/role play.

hamster-bamster · Jan 22, 2014 at 02:18 AM

I don't see a problem with it if the woman playing the daughter has not herself been a victim of CSA at the hands of her father in real life. Say, I was such a victim and I would not play such a fantasy game because I know all too well how not at all playful the reality is.

Webgoji · Jan 22, 2014 at 07:11 AM

What Hamster-Bamster says.

AngstyLady · Jan 30, 2014 at 02:52 PM

Well, it's definitely not for everyone. My initial reaction in reading your post's title: "ew"

allme · Jan 30, 2014 at 03:17 PM

I work as a receptionist for an escort agency so have heard it all

Jan 30, 2014 at 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster

I don't see a problem with it if the woman playing the daughter has not herself been a victim of CSA at the hands of her father in real life. Say, I was such a victim and I would not play such a fantasy game because I know all too well how not at all playful the reality is.

That's a difficult one because at the same time it discriminates against those who have been abused from acting out such fantasies.

It could be possible an abused woman could have had those fantasies regardless of what happened in childhood. So we don't know.

hamster-bamster · Jan 31, 2014 at 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Lycanthrope

That's a difficult one because at the same time it discriminates against those who have been abused from acting out such fantasies.

It could be possible an abused woman could have had those fantasies regardless of what happened in childhood. So we don't know.

Yes, if she has such fantasies (I don't), but in that case I think the man needs to wait for the abused woman to speak up and voice her desire to enact such fantasies - in other words, the woman who has a leading role in it is probably fine and possibly even benefits if there is some processing work done via the reenactment. To be asked for participation (in the role of a follower and not on her own initiative) can be... disgusting, I would say. So I would tread lightly with victims of CSA and there are many victims, so it is not a fringe concern.

But a good catch in re: discrimination potential.

Angel of Bedlam · Jan 31, 2014 at 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by DylanP

Does anyone find this an ok thing, I know guys who say they do it with their wife or girlfriend but don't talk about because they think some people would find it really weird and if you are into that, you must be twisted, but these guys talk openly about sex and fantasies and say nothing is better then her saying 'oh daddy, i love you daddy' as they have sex hard, some of these guys say it even makes them stay hard for longer than normal. Where do they draw the line though? One told me he even gets his girlfriend to dress like a teen, and gets pigtails put in her hair etc, wear a school uniform, that too weird??

Role playing and fantasies like this has never really been something that I've wanted to do, but I did have an ex who liked it when I called him daddy. My boyfriend and I recently taped a sack session and he mentioned taping again but in role play (we both remarking on how it'd be hard for us because we would probably end up laughing). While the daughter/daddy fantasy is one that would not be for us (my first reaction as well was "ew"), to each their own. Sex should be fun anf exciting and if that works for you, it works for you.

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Webgoji · Jan 31, 2014 at 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Angel of Bedlam

... he mentioned taping again but in role play (we both remarking on how it'd be hard for us because we would probably end up laughing).

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Angel - I'm a naughty schoolgirl
BF - I'm a paladin with 5d10+2 hit points and a helm of destruction
Angel - Paladins can't use a helm of destruction
BF - Oh, then I'm a stern teacher

Roleplaying at its best!

Angel of Bedlam · Jan 31, 2014 at 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Webgoji

Angel - I'm a naughty schoolgirl
BF - I'm a paladin with 5d10+2 hit points and a helm of destruction
Angel - Paladins can't use a helm of destruction
BF - Oh, then I'm a stern teacher

Roleplaying at its best!

Bahahahaha! We may have to ease our way into it.

Me- Mr. Smith, I'll do anything to get an "A"... *starts undoing top.

Lmfao

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Donna_N · Feb 07, 2014 at 11:43 PM

I think incest fantasies are not unusual, I have them about my mom, and once dated a guy who had them about his mother, and we did some role play, felt a bit odd having someone my own age calling me "mommy"

Feb 11, 2014 at 08:33 PM

It's pretty common in the BDSM community. You really have to not see it as "daddy" "daughter". It's more a case of a dominant personality and "little" personality. Each also has characteristics of an adult and child. The dominant is nurturing and protective and the submissive escapes to a place of innocence where they enjoy being taken care of.

FaithlessCat · Feb 14, 2014 at 12:45 PM

This is one of my more common Roleplays. Oddly it is one I havent shared with my husband ( and we have shared a lot of very taboo and intimate stuff ), this one I keep for myself I guess and sometimes venture online to find a willing partner to play it out with me.

I think it comes down to my love of being seduced. You have to feel like a nieve young girl sometimes for the seduction to be believable.

Marshellette · Feb 17, 2014 at 01:12 AM

Not a turn on for me, unless Keith Urban plays my daddy. He is much older than me.

Phreak · Feb 18, 2014 at 05:20 PM

It sounds fun - perhaps with the roles reversed though Mother/son instead

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LiteraryLark Crowned "The Good Witch" Member Since Jun 2009 Location: Wonderland Posts: 11,535 (SuperPoster!) 14 1,318 hugs given	Dec 29, 2013 at 03:07 PM #5 This is one of the most common fantasies out there. Very normal.
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 12 3,729 hugs given	Jan 22, 2014 at 02:18 AM #7 I don't see a problem with it if the woman playing the daughter has not herself been a victim of CSA at the hands of her father in real life. Say, I was such a victim and I would not play such a fantasy game because I know all too well how not at all playful the reality is.
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Webgoji Grand Magnate Member Since Aug 2013 Location: Wichita, Ks Posts: 3,535 10 993 hugs given	Jan 22, 2014 at 07:11 AM #8 What Hamster-Bamster says.
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Donna_N Member Member Since Sep 2009 Location: On the Chinvat Bridge Posts: 45 14	Feb 07, 2014 at 11:43 PM #16 I think incest fantasies are not unusual, I have them about my mom, and once dated a guy who had them about his mother, and we did some role play, felt a bit odd having someone my own age calling me "mommy"
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Anonymous37954 Guest Posts: n/a	Feb 11, 2014 at 08:33 PM #17 It's pretty common in the BDSM community. You really have to not see it as "daddy" "daughter". It's more a case of a dominant personality and "little" personality. Each also has characteristics of an adult and child. The dominant is nurturing and protective and the submissive escapes to a place of innocence where they enjoy being taken care of.
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Marshellette Veteran Member Member Since Jan 2014 Location: Backstage Posts: 523 10 25 hugs given	Feb 17, 2014 at 01:12 AM #19 Not a turn on for me, unless Keith Urban plays my daddy. He is much older than me. __________________ Swim, just swim. Keep your head above water.
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Phreak Veteran Member Member Since Mar 2012 Posts: 734 12 184 hugs given	Feb 18, 2014 at 05:20 PM #20 It sounds fun - perhaps with the roles reversed though Mother/son instead
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