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Old Dec 29, 2013, 06:06 AM
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Does anyone find this an ok thing, I know guys who say they do it with their wife or girlfriend but don't talk about because they think some people would find it really weird and if you are into that, you must be twisted, but these guys talk openly about sex and fantasies and say nothing is better then her saying 'oh daddy, i love you daddy' as they have sex hard, some of these guys say it even makes them stay hard for longer than normal. Where do they draw the line though? One told me he even gets his girlfriend to dress like a teen, and gets pigtails put in her hair etc, wear a school uniform, that too weird??

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Old Dec 29, 2013, 07:21 AM
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I guess it is a personal thing as all fetishes and role playing is but that fantasy is not one I could enjoy. My exBF and I used to enjoy watching porn as foreplay but one video that we rented was the daddy/daughter fantasy (both looked adult age though). We were both so turned OFF that we did not even finish watching the video and took it right back to the rental store. Not a turn on for us.

I had a short plaid 'schoolgirl' skirt I wore for him sometimes but that was different.
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Old Dec 29, 2013, 07:53 AM
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There is NOTHING about ANY kind of fantasy that is weird... so long as it stays a fantasy and it doesn't hurt anyone.

To each their own.

However, I'm afraid I would consider it to be way more than weird if it wasn't fantasy roleplaying and was actually a Daddy/Daughter situation instead. I'm pretty darned sure that that's crossing a line that should never be crossed.
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Old Dec 29, 2013, 08:56 AM
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Where do they draw the line though? One told me he even gets his girlfriend to dress like a teen, and gets pigtails put in her hair etc, wear a school uniform, that too weird??
They draw the line with mutually agreed upon 'safe words/gestures' I'd hope. Fetishism, role play, isn't weird, it's a part of life, for many.


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Old Dec 29, 2013, 03:07 PM
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This is one of the most common fantasies out there. Very normal.
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Old Jan 21, 2014, 08:45 PM
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An ex girlfriend of mine used to refer to herself as 'mommy' during sex which the first time made me take a staggered step backwards and I almost fell over a coffee table, but I soon overcame that in my mind. It never did anything for me, but she used to like to play that role sometimes so I just went along with it. I didn't see the harm as long as it was just a fantasy/role play.
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Old Jan 22, 2014, 02:18 AM
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I don't see a problem with it if the woman playing the daughter has not herself been a victim of CSA at the hands of her father in real life. Say, I was such a victim and I would not play such a fantasy game because I know all too well how not at all playful the reality is.
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Old Jan 22, 2014, 07:11 AM
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What Hamster-Bamster says.
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Well, it's definitely not for everyone. My initial reaction in reading your post's title: "ew"
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Old Jan 30, 2014, 03:18 PM
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I don't see a problem with it if the woman playing the daughter has not herself been a victim of CSA at the hands of her father in real life. Say, I was such a victim and I would not play such a fantasy game because I know all too well how not at all playful the reality is.
That's a difficult one because at the same time it discriminates against those who have been abused from acting out such fantasies.

It could be possible an abused woman could have had those fantasies regardless of what happened in childhood. So we don't know.
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Old Jan 31, 2014, 12:50 AM
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That's a difficult one because at the same time it discriminates against those who have been abused from acting out such fantasies.

It could be possible an abused woman could have had those fantasies regardless of what happened in childhood. So we don't know.
Yes, if she has such fantasies (I don't), but in that case I think the man needs to wait for the abused woman to speak up and voice her desire to enact such fantasies - in other words, the woman who has a leading role in it is probably fine and possibly even benefits if there is some processing work done via the reenactment. To be asked for participation (in the role of a follower and not on her own initiative) can be... disgusting, I would say. So I would tread lightly with victims of CSA and there are many victims, so it is not a fringe concern.

But a good catch in re: discrimination potential.
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Old Jan 31, 2014, 10:12 AM
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Does anyone find this an ok thing, I know guys who say they do it with their wife or girlfriend but don't talk about because they think some people would find it really weird and if you are into that, you must be twisted, but these guys talk openly about sex and fantasies and say nothing is better then her saying 'oh daddy, i love you daddy' as they have sex hard, some of these guys say it even makes them stay hard for longer than normal. Where do they draw the line though? One told me he even gets his girlfriend to dress like a teen, and gets pigtails put in her hair etc, wear a school uniform, that too weird??
Role playing and fantasies like this has never really been something that I've wanted to do, but I did have an ex who liked it when I called him daddy. My boyfriend and I recently taped a sack session and he mentioned taping again but in role play (we both remarking on how it'd be hard for us because we would probably end up laughing). While the daughter/daddy fantasy is one that would not be for us (my first reaction as well was "ew"), to each their own. Sex should be fun anf exciting and if that works for you, it works for you.

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... he mentioned taping again but in role play (we both remarking on how it'd be hard for us because we would probably end up laughing).

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Angel - I'm a naughty schoolgirl
BF - I'm a paladin with 5d10+2 hit points and a helm of destruction
Angel - Paladins can't use a helm of destruction
BF - Oh, then I'm a stern teacher

Roleplaying at its best!
Bahahahaha! We may have to ease our way into it.

Me- Mr. Smith, I'll do anything to get an "A"... *starts undoing top.

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Old Feb 07, 2014, 11:43 PM
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I think incest fantasies are not unusual, I have them about my mom, and once dated a guy who had them about his mother, and we did some role play, felt a bit odd having someone my own age calling me "mommy"
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It's pretty common in the BDSM community. You really have to not see it as "daddy" "daughter". It's more a case of a dominant personality and "little" personality. Each also has characteristics of an adult and child. The dominant is nurturing and protective and the submissive escapes to a place of innocence where they enjoy being taken care of.
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Old Feb 14, 2014, 12:45 PM
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This is one of my more common Roleplays. Oddly it is one I havent shared with my husband ( and we have shared a lot of very taboo and intimate stuff ), this one I keep for myself I guess and sometimes venture online to find a willing partner to play it out with me.

I think it comes down to my love of being seduced. You have to feel like a nieve young girl sometimes for the seduction to be believable.
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Not a turn on for me, unless Keith Urban plays my daddy. He is much older than me.
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It sounds fun - perhaps with the roles reversed though Mother/son instead
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Old Feb 18, 2014, 08:23 PM
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I personal loveeee calling my bf daddy but not because I view him as my father but because he's the man of the house he takes care of his family so he's my daddy my man he's not my father so when people like bein called daddy or people who call someone daddy it doesn't always mean they are viewing them as their father and guys like pig tails annd school girl outfits its a fantasy not that they really want to screw a teenager but they think of a hot slut in school nd they probably remember their highschool years and all the slutty girls they wanted now if the guy wanted a girl to dress like an actually little kid and have them play with toys watch cartoons ect then that's where u cross the line because that's not normal but guys who like little kids they wouldn't bother havin someone dress up as one it wouldn't do anythin for them they actually would need to see a little kid
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It's pretty common in the BDSM community. You really have to not see it as "daddy" "daughter". It's more a case of a dominant personality and "little" personality. Each also has characteristics of an adult and child. The dominant is nurturing and protective and the submissive escapes to a place of innocence where they enjoy being taken care of.
This is a good description. In the BDSM community D/lg relationships are a subset of D/s relationships. A D/lg relationship isn't just sexual, so you have to keep that in mind. It is not a traditional D/s relationship. It is in actuality more like a traditional marriage from the 50s where the husband took on responsibility for the care of the wife. In the 50s and in the South it was not uncommon for a woman to call her husband "daddy".
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Old Feb 18, 2014, 09:00 PM
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How does that work? Is that legal to be doing that? What's the difference between an escort and a prostitute, because aren't they basically doing the same things (all in a matter of dignity)?
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Old Feb 19, 2014, 07:51 AM
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if the guy wanted a girl to dress like an actually little kid and have them play with toys watch cartoons ect then that's where u cross the line because that's not normal
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Old Feb 19, 2014, 11:06 AM
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How does that work? Is that legal to be doing that? What's the difference between an escort and a prostitute, because aren't they basically doing the same things (all in a matter of dignity)?
To my knowledge, escorts are girls that you pay to go on a date with you ... you "escort" them to dinner or a social function or whatever, but there's no sex. Prostitutes you pay to have sex with you.
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