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Feb 19, 2014, 04:49 PM
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I don't enjoy sex at all. I had sex with my boyfriend, I never get to climax. I don't enjoy it, I then tried with a woman (thought maybe I'm lesbian) still nothing. I can't even do it myself.
Is something wrong? |
 Anonymous37954
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Feb 20, 2014, 02:41 AM
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Hmm. Well, there are a bunch of different things that it could be but it might just be that you don't like sex. Which means you fall into the category of Asexual (which is how I identify). There is nothing wrong with you even if you don't like sex (personally I like food way better any day haha) but I would definitely look into it a bit more since I'm not exactly experienced in actual sex.
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Feb 20, 2014, 03:02 AM
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Well, if it's just climaxing....
Sex is nice....when you get to climax, it's possibly the most wonderful ten seconds of your life. So the question is, is it simply climaxing that you can't or is it sex that you're not interested in? If it's the latter, I can help you, but maybe not on a public forum (it's not x rated, just personal) Feel free to email... |
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Feb 20, 2014, 07:05 AM
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You said that you can't have an orgasm through masturbation. Like everyone said, does that feel good, but you just can't climax? If it does feel good, but you can't reach orgasm through masturbation, then I think a trip to the doctor is in order. If it doesn't feel good, then it's possible that you just aren't into it and that's okay too.
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#5
Feb 20, 2014, 10:14 AM
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Thanks for the replies
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#6
Feb 20, 2014, 04:55 PM
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How old are you? Just asking in case you might be a late bloomer.
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#7
Feb 20, 2014, 06:09 PM
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I am 29 years old.
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#8
Feb 20, 2014, 07:48 PM
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If you are on ssris, that could be the culprit.
If not, could be a matter of just focusing on feelings, as in,,could be performance anxiety. Sent from my LG-MS910 using Tapatalk 2 |
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#9
Feb 20, 2014, 09:36 PM
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Ssri's, and other drugs, too. What are you taking? The whole list and not just psych.
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Feb 21, 2014, 12:01 PM
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Don't forget to fantasise during sex. Some women climax from penetration, others need lots of clitoral stimulation.
Don't be afraid to bring toys into the bedroom! If you can't climax on your own when masturbating, how do you expect to climax during sex?  Practice makes for perfection!
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