[ptangptang]

Ok so i've met a lovely lady on a dating site and we email, phone and skype and we seem to tick each others boxes. We haven't met yet . She lives in Scotland ( but is originally from my area) and i'm in the south if England ( near London). She wants to come back down south, She has a lot of family down south. Anyway, we will meet soon . Either i will go up to Scotland or she will come down and i'm sure sex will be on the agenda if not at the first meeting definately shortly after. But and i've got a big BUTT. I cum but i don't get hard. Well not very hard. I mean you couldn't hammer a nail in with it. Ok guys ( and girls ) tell me what you've used, what works, what doesn't. Anything you think might help. I'm sure she would be very understanding ( she's a lovely lady) but well....

[ptangptang]

Oh i'm 57 btw. On blood pressure tablets, overweight er so i guess there could be a few reasons for it.

[Webgoji]

Originally Posted by ptangptang

On blood pressure tablets

Ah, there be the culprit. I know a plethora of guys that have had to go on blood pressure medication and suffer from erectile dysfunction because of it. You could try things like nitric oxide (bodybuilders and weight lifters have used it for years, it's a hemodialator) or horny goat weed, but the sure fire bandage I know of is Viagra or Cialis until you get the blood pressure under control.

Hope that helps ... and beware the 4 hour erection ...

[kipper-bang]

Originally Posted by ptangptang

Ok so i've met a lovely lady on a dating site and we email, phone and skype and we seem to tick each others boxes. We haven't met yet . She lives in Scotland ( but is originally from my area) and i'm in the south if England ( near London). She wants to come back down south, She has a lot of family down south. Anyway, we will meet soon . Either i will go up to Scotland or she will come down and i'm sure sex will be on the agenda if not at the first meeting definately shortly after. But and i've got a big BUTT. I cum but i don't get hard. Well not very hard. I mean you couldn't hammer a nail in with it. Ok guys ( and girls ) tell me what you've used, what works, what doesn't. Anything you think might help. I'm sure she would be very understanding ( she's a lovely lady) but well....

If this lady friend is the one for you, she will understand and make exceptions for any sexual problems between you. Not all women want to jump into bed with a guy on the first date or even the second. It is an assumption that many men make and can lead to all kind of misunderstandings and break ups.

If it really bothers you, then talk to her about it before you meet up face to face. It will allow you to unburden yourself without having to wait for awkward silences or quick un-thought-out answers. Try to look at the positive side of what you see as a negative. It allows you more time to get to know each other as people and friends. Working out the erection problems between you will bring you closer romantically. This can be with any health issue you both may have.

There are so many things you can do together in the bedroom, sitting room, kitchen....etc. which do not involve penetration - oral, massage, stroking, fetish play and the list goes on. What fun you both will have exploring each others bodies and finding what turns you both on.

Good Luck. x