[jordon]

I like to dress in panties..is there somethinh wrong with me

[sukothefox]

No, there isn't. If you aren't harming anyone, that is.
If you aren't, then your behavior is just part of a rainbow of sexual expression.

Originally Posted by jordon

I like to dress in panties..is there somethinh wrong with me

Hi Jordon: There's absolutely nothing wrong with you! Lots of men enjoy wearing women's clothing. Many women also like to wear men's clothing. Unfortunately society says that it's okay for a woman to wear men's clothing. But us guys aren't supposed to wear women's clothing. It's bunk. But that's still the way it tends to be, although attitudes are changing slowly.

The only potential problem I see here is if you're hiding the panties you're wearing & feeling guilty about liking them. Guilt & secretiveness can build up over time & come out in other ways such as depression & anxiety.

The one other thing I'll bring up is: do you just enjoy wearing women's panties, or is this one piece of a larger puzzle for you. Have you thought about this? It may be or it may not be. Either way is fine. But it's something to consider.

Only if it bothers you or causes problems as in not wearing anything else

[Myotherlife]

Me too! I'm wearing men's jockey shorts right now because I have a physiotherapy appointment this morning. But when I come home, it'll be back into panties.

I started wearing panties daily just five years ago, after I'd had a talk with a psychologist about my panty desires and other troublesome fetishes. I'd wanted to wear panties for decades, literally, and often "borrowed" my wife's panties to use as masturbation toys, although it was years after we were married that she learned about what I was doing. Her only comment then: "Please wash them before giving them back to me."

After that talk with my psychologist, I decided I had to start wearing panties routinely, and told my wife. She was fine with it, and even went shopping with me. She thinks that any woman who would jeopardize a relationship because her male partner wants to wear lingerie is just plain silly. There are more important things in life than a few square inches of nylon.

Panties are very much a part of my sexuality. I wear my best pairs (preferably nylon, black or pink, sometimes red, trimmed with lace) when my wife and I have dates. Day-to-day it's pretty ordinary cotton-lycra briefs which could almost pass for men's briefs except for a scalloped waistband with hearts and the lack of a fly.

I don't think that clothing makes the man or the woman, but clothing does express who we want to be, and if you want to be a man who wears panties then you should be a man who wears panties, at least in private and if you feel a bit braver, at school and work. I would have saved myself a lot of angst if I had decided decades earlier to wear what I wanted rather than what my society appears to want me to wear. (A point that my psychologist made is that we really don't know which men are wearing panties and which aren't.)

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[timjohnez]

My GF is the one that introduced me to wearing panties. She admits she likes the way they hug my equipment & the way my package looks wrapped in something sexier that a cotton skivvy. I don't wear them 24/7 (i still have my boxer briefs) but i do wear them occasionally @ her request.

[trying2survive]

Originally Posted by jordon

I like to dress in panties..is there somethinh wrong with me

i think that's just your fetish..if it turns you on ..do it!

[AppalachianAxis]

You're hardly alone. I have a repressed interest in it as well. I've tried it inly once or twice, felt terrible about what I'd done, and haven't tried it since. But that doesn't mean the thoughts don't enter my head frequently.
No, there is nothing wrong with you. But I personally understand how hard it can be to accept a fetish as part of yourself, even if it doesn't hurt a soul.
Best of luck.

Originally Posted by AppalachianAxis

You're hardly alone. I have a repressed interest in it as well. I've tried it inly once or twice, felt terrible about what I'd done, and haven't tried it since. But that doesn't mean the thoughts don't enter my head frequently.
No, there is nothing wrong with you. But I personally understand how hard it can be to accept a fetish as part of yourself, even if it doesn't hurt a soul.
Best of luck.

Well said, AppalachianAxis.

[TheWell]

I'm female and I wear men's boxer briefs and I never thought twice about it. I think anyone should be able to wear what makes them comfortable as long as it's appropriate for the situation. Like not wearing a bathing suit to school etc.

[WantToGrow]

I love all of you people who posted - you all sound wonderful! I recently began wearing a pair of my husband's boxer briefs because I was reading 50 Shades of Grey and the lead in the story wore her Dom's briefs...Plus, I was going through a bout of shingles on below the belt and nothing was comfortable, so I tried them and they were wonderful! I almost kept them on under jeans to go shopping but worried they'd be too bunchy with the shingles...I'm thinking of going shopping for some more underwear for him and keeping some for myself!

[sickmonkey]

Originally Posted by jordon

I like to dress in panties..is there somethinh wrong with me

Hi, I'm a 49yo man and have been wearing panties, nighties, etc. since I was 12.
I wanted to be a cute girl when I was 12 (and still fantasize about it). The term for this is autogynephilia: being aroused by picturing oneself as a member of the opposite sex. Anyway, I think you just need to be yourself, express yourself, and respect yourself. In the 37 years I've been wearing panties I have never made any effort to hide it from any of the 100 or so women I've been with. Most of them either weren't effected at all by it, or actually liked it. Women's clothes are much more fun!!! 'To thine own self be true'. Everyone else can kiss your ***.

[Homeira]

I had a boyfriend who liked to wear my underwear. I remember it turned me on! Wouldnt worry too much about it.

I just started waring my husband's boxers briefs he didn't like them and was going to throw them away I was like hold on they look like shorts and they are black !
So I tried them on for giggles and I love them they are so compatible !

It feels like shorts not underwear and the nice thing is I can get away with waring it around the house with a long
t shirt so you don't see where the opening is. They look and feel like bike shorts ,

So see your not the only one

[Leto]

I appreciate the comments from the women about how they think it's ok for a guy to wear women's clothes because they wear boxers or something else, but there is a MAJOR difference. In society today there is a 0 issue with women wearing any men's clothing, but a man wears ANY piece of a woman's clothing and he is any number of names. Even if he is 100% straight and in a relationship with an open person, it will come back to haunt him. Clothing designed for both sexes have changed over the years. Dresses aka robes, were originally worn by men, try it today. Pants were originally for men ONLY, now try telling a woman she can't wear them. Women look hot in men's shirts and underwear to almost all men, but find many women that feel the same way about men in women's clothes. As I said I appreciate it, but the stigma is completely different. We need more women like you.

[CantExplain]

Yes, but women fought long and hard for the privilege of wearing men's clothing. And a costly fight it was, too. (For example, this was the final proof that Joan of Arc was a witch.)