This happened to me last night, I crushed her against the arms of the sofa. In the end i just put my palms behind her and kept going. How often does this happen with you and what are your strategies for keeping your partner comfortable in the face of your aggression?

[bixkf]

Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet

This happened to me last night, I crushed her against the arms of the sofa. In the end i just put my palms behind her and kept going. How often does this happen with you and what are your strategies for keeping your partner comfortable in the face of your aggression?

I've been told that I provide and seek attention too much. I tell my wife that I love her and ask her if she is doing okay too often. My wife tells me it overwhelms her. She tells me that I don't romance her, but when I try to figure out when to do, I read/get told to do the things that she finds "too much". So I've loved her too much that now she isn't intimate with me...

[Webgoji]

Personally, I think it's pretty easy not to hurt someone when I'm eager. It's simple, I think about her wants and needs instead of my own. If I'm thinking about what she wants and I want to fulfill those desires, then I won't do anything that hurts her.

[Angel of Bedlam]

Pardon the saying (as I don't mean to offend), but you basically don't let the crazy drive... better yet, you don't let the lust drive. You remember that there are two people in the room, and you think about the other person.

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