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May 09, 2014 at 08:14 AM
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Does anyone here have any experience with it? I would love to hear your take on it....sexual or nonsexual. What is the motivation behind wanting to be punished as a little child or do the punishing as an authority figure? I have had a little bit of experience but would like to hear others....I tend to want to be spanked as a submissive adult and am curious about the flip side.
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May 10, 2014 at 07:30 AM
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What do you enjoy about being spanked as a submissive adult? The two situations seem similar to me. They both share common aspects such as the relinquishing of control.
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May 10, 2014 at 11:52 AM
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Well the difference with age play, as I have heard (never done it/never wanted to), is that there is a big shift similar to subspace but you psychologically shift into a "younger" self. I have heard friends of mine say they felt a switch go off and felt much younger.
Age play isn't my thing, I have had spankings as a submissive adult from a dominant adult who would impose rules (nothing too serious) so I suppose domestic discipline that was non-sexual. I felt younger in the sense that I was being punished for behaviors by someone I saw as an authority figure with in a scene, which did help me submit and relax. But Age play seems a bit to intense for my liking. As for motivation, I think it's another step of D/s for a lot of people. I guess going into a "young mind" space can cause someone to be more submissive, to get more subspace, etc. I think a Dominant person gains more control as well. __________________ “You are so brave and quiet I forget you are suffering.”. Last edited by Grey Matter; May 10, 2014 at 03:47 PM.. |
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May 13, 2014 at 04:13 AM
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I never thought of it as age play but maybe it is.
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May 13, 2014 at 04:54 PM
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May 13, 2014 at 10:21 PM
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I think the idea behind submission games (eg being spanked) is that you surrender your power but in return you get looked after. So it's like being a baby in age play.
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May 14, 2014 at 03:17 AM
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May 14, 2014 at 05:13 AM
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I do think age play and the adult D/s relationships are somehow intertwined just at different levels. I think the need for domination is the same so hence both are submissives seeking out punishement but still curious about the subtle differences and the need to be in a different age mindset....I suspect it might be a way to heal or deal with childhood trauma. |
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May 14, 2014 at 08:30 AM
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May 27, 2014 at 02:53 AM
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I really don't know anything about age regression but my husband has informed me that he wants to introduce domestic discipline into our marriage. Not sure how I feel about it. The rules are pretty straight forward and so are the consequences for breaking them. I never thought of DD as a type of age regression but being spanked like a child qualifies as such. I'm willing to try it for a couple of months and see how it goes. I will keep you posted.
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May 28, 2014 at 12:51 PM
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If you're not sure how you feel about it don't forget that you can say NO! Or perhaps it should work both ways if he breaks rules that you give him 
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Hi, I'm a 49yo man that has been very kinky since I was 10. Anyway, I think the 'flip side' is a lot more fun. I think besides being a little more risque, it is also a little more cerebral. And because of that, more endorphins are released. Imagination is the spice of life. |
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