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So, only recently have I done something sexual for the first time in my life.. After a lot of fighting with myself, I have finally admitted and accepted to the fact that I'm attracted to males.
I'm a pre-everything (MTF) transgender I guess.. anyway, I'm in a 'homosexual' relationship, and and my gender identity problem makes it hard for me to go past oral... and I can hold my orgasm for as long as I want when I'm masturbating, but with a real person, I've learnt that I can't, all it takes is a touch.... and.... bammm... sometimes it doesn't even have to be a touch, just talk is enough face-to-face. Well, I'm not really unhappy about this fact, but is this normal for starters (newbies) ? |
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Well the main sex organ is your brain, and "normal" is more myth than reality. And being able to delay orgasm will come with experience, not just with the physical contact but with how your emotions/feelings are tied to your sexual experiences with others.
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