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Jun 13, 2014 at 08:29 PM
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I'm in love with my best friend. She's a girl, and the only girl I've ever liked. We're both straight, but we've both had feelings for each other in the past, and when we're drunk we enjoy making out with each other. We talk about sex quite often...sometimes we joke about it, and sometimes we're serious about it. I would like to have sex with her, but after getting really drunk with her last night I found that she had Chlamydia. She said she took pills to make her cured but she told me that she's been bleeding during sex, although she said that it was likely due to her boyfriend being too rough.
I'm worried that she might still have Chlamydia and I don't know how to protect myself if we get so drunk we have sex. She's against using protection. I want to have sex with her, but I don't want to contract anything! What do I do? |
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Jun 13, 2014 at 11:19 PM
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Probably don't have sex with her or find some other way to immunise yourself.
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Jun 14, 2014 at 02:50 AM
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As we can clearly see, against protection 〓 chlamydia, don't have sexual relations with your friend, she doesn't seem mature enough to care about her or anyone else's safety.
In some cases, "better be safe than sorry" is appropriate. This is one of those cases... __________________  DXD BP1, BPD & OCPD  "The best way to make it through with hearts and wrists in tact, is to realise, two out of three aint bad" FOB...
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Jun 19, 2014 at 01:07 PM
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Don't. She might have the clap.
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Jun 21, 2014 at 11:42 PM
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Chlamydia can be cured, unlike some STIs like herpes. I wouldn't be too concerned about getting chlamydia. I understand that you have feelings for her, but she has a boyfriend. You shouldn't be having sex with (or even making out with) someone who is taken.
Would you ever consider a relationship with her, or are you only interested in sex? I don't mean to be judgmental; I'm simply curious. __________________ I dwell in possibility-Emily Dickinson Check out my blog on equality for those with mental health issues (updated 12/4/15) http://phoenixesrisingtogether.blogspot.com 
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Crowned "The Good Witch"
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Jun 22, 2014 at 09:43 PM
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She decided she didn't want to do this while she has a boyfriend.
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