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#1
Jun 14, 2014, 02:02 PM
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When hubby goes down south I find it incredibly sexy. But he is bad at it. I want him to focus more on my clit then anything else. He will start then he stops.
 And then he starts again to the point I get so frustrated. I just want to tell him not to bother. I read on twitter the other night (uberfacts) that a women's clit there are 8000 nerves where a man's penis has 4000. Helloooooooo...I even read that to him and told him that is how I want to come. Not just with his hands. He wants oral sex all the time and 1/2 the time or less I get it. Sigh...Just dont know. 
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#2
Jun 14, 2014, 10:09 PM
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Hi, buzz bee. Have you actually shown him exactly how to touch and where? Maybe you will need to tell him to give you good oral sex first before it's his turn!
Sometimes different flavors of body licks can make this aspect more appealing. |
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Jun 18, 2014, 06:43 AM
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I think you need to indicate to him what percentage of the time you would like him to devote to each part of your body, based on the sensitivity and receptiveness of those parts. Or maybe you could get into a dominant BDSM role with him, and in that role you could safely order him to stimulate your clitoris without any fear of hurting his feelings or being misunderstood.
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Jun 18, 2014, 09:14 AM
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Good idea.
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#5
Jun 18, 2014, 09:30 AM
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I read somewhere that the best way to get a man to do what you would like it to tell him in simple words.
Harder, faster, left, right, right there, more But you can't believe everything you read, but do know it works on me.
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#6
Jun 18, 2014, 04:05 PM
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Quote:
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#7
Jun 19, 2014, 01:05 PM
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Make a clay map of the vajay. My boyfriend thought that it was located at the end of the vajay when it's really in the middle. Bad anatomy knowledge on his part.
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#8
Jun 27, 2014, 06:34 PM
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Have you tried licking his pe*is the way you would like him to lick you. I have tried that and it seems to work quite well. Like right under the head where it is sensitive. The speed, the rate of changing things up and especially the finish. That is the biggest problem for my H and me. The whole thing might be a great trip but the ending, man if that gets screwed up then it was all in vain.
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#9
Jun 27, 2014, 09:38 PM
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Yep. He likes watching me use my vibrator so you would think he would know my sweet spot. He did better last time. So there is hope.
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#10
Jun 27, 2014, 10:10 PM
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well it sounds like there might be hope after all.
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