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buzz bee · Jun 14, 2014 at 02:02 PM

When hubby goes down south I find it incredibly sexy. But he is bad at it. I want him to focus more on my clit then anything else. He will start then he stops.

And then he starts again to the point I get so frustrated. I just want to tell him not to bother.

I read on twitter the other night (uberfacts) that a women's clit there are 8000 nerves where a man's penis has 4000. Helloooooooo...I even read that to him and told him that is how I want to come. Not just with his hands.

He wants oral sex all the time and 1/2 the time or less I get it. Sigh...Just dont know.

Travelinglady · Jun 14, 2014 at 10:09 PM

Hi, buzz bee. Have you actually shown him exactly how to touch and where? Maybe you will need to tell him to give you good oral sex first before it's his turn!

Sometimes different flavors of body licks can make this aspect more appealing.

Jun 18, 2014 at 06:43 AM

I think you need to indicate to him what percentage of the time you would like him to devote to each part of your body, based on the sensitivity and receptiveness of those parts. Or maybe you could get into a dominant BDSM role with him, and in that role you could safely order him to stimulate your clitoris without any fear of hurting his feelings or being misunderstood.

buzz bee · Jun 18, 2014 at 09:14 AM

Good idea.

Mike_J · Jun 18, 2014 at 09:30 AM

I read somewhere that the best way to get a man to do what you would like it to tell him in simple words.

Harder, faster, left, right, right there, more

But you can't believe everything you read, but do know it works on me.

buzz bee · Jun 18, 2014 at 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Mike_J

I read somewhere that the best way to get a man to do what you would like it to tell him in simple words.

Harder, faster, left, right, right there, more

But you can't believe everything you read, but do know it works on me.

I do communicate, he starts and then stops. So frustrating. I keep myself clean too. Shower before or use a feminine wipe.

Marshellette · Jun 19, 2014 at 01:05 PM

Make a clay map of the vajay. My boyfriend thought that it was located at the end of the vajay when it's really in the middle. Bad anatomy knowledge on his part.

Big Mama · Jun 27, 2014 at 06:34 PM

Have you tried licking his pe*is the way you would like him to lick you. I have tried that and it seems to work quite well. Like right under the head where it is sensitive. The speed, the rate of changing things up and especially the finish. That is the biggest problem for my H and me. The whole thing might be a great trip but the ending, man if that gets screwed up then it was all in vain.

buzz bee · Jun 27, 2014 at 09:38 PM

Yep. He likes watching me use my vibrator so you would think he would know my sweet spot. He did better last time. So there is hope.

Big Mama · Jun 27, 2014 at 10:10 PM

well it sounds like there might be hope after all.

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Travelinglady Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Sep 2010 Location: North Carolina Posts: 49,204 (SuperPoster!) 14 23.3k hugs given	Jun 14, 2014 at 10:09 PM #2 Hi, buzz bee. Have you actually shown him exactly how to touch and where? Maybe you will need to tell him to give you good oral sex first before it's his turn! Sometimes different flavors of body licks can make this aspect more appealing.
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buzz bee Veteran Member Member Since Jun 2014 Location: Between here and there Posts: 573 10 33 hugs given	Jun 18, 2014 at 09:14 AM #4 Good idea.
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Marshellette Veteran Member Member Since Jan 2014 Location: Backstage Posts: 523 10 25 hugs given	Jun 19, 2014 at 01:05 PM #7 Make a clay map of the vajay. My boyfriend thought that it was located at the end of the vajay when it's really in the middle. Bad anatomy knowledge on his part. __________________ Swim, just swim. Keep your head above water.
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Big Mama Magnate Member Since Jun 2012 Location: Virginia Posts: 2,191 12 646 hugs given	Jun 27, 2014 at 10:10 PM #10 well it sounds like there might be hope after all.
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