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Default Aug 15, 2014 at 12:06 AM
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Why can we write vaginal but not **** ? What?
LOL You are so right with that observation.

I wonder why PC will let me post about wanting to give my dr a bj, yet I get threads closed for being an atheist. Somehow the bj is OK.
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Default Aug 15, 2014 at 01:37 PM
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My partner would like to penetrate me there but it didn't do much for me. Initially you have to get over the feeling that you want to go to the toilet, because that's what it feels like.
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Default Aug 15, 2014 at 03:50 PM
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My partner would like to penetrate me there but it didn't do much for me. Initially you have to get over the feeling that you want to go to the toilet, because that's what it feels like.
Ive thought the same thing.

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Default Aug 16, 2014 at 01:21 PM
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Im a fan of vaginal. I think the only thing that might change that is if my partner started asking for **** sex

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Default Aug 17, 2014 at 11:03 AM
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This can go for the guys as well. What do you guys prefer and why is **** so attracted for men?

I heard some women prefer **** more then vaginal. Why and how come...Im learning here.

My husband has been interested in it from day one. I know nothing. I know a finger back stage is very uncomfortable for me. Doesn't do a thing for me but makes foreplay uncomfortable. Any suggestions?
I think it's because we always want what we can't have...we crave the forbidden.
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Default Aug 17, 2014 at 03:32 PM
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Why can we write vaginal but not **** ? What?
Alternately, we could call it butt bumping, assimilation, boinking the butthole, rear ending the Audi, a poop-shoot pole dance, etc...but don't you dare write **** sex.

This band would work, too:

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Default Aug 17, 2014 at 03:56 PM
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never even thought of **** . Not appealing. There's a perfectly good opening nearby... and it's more attractive, IMHO.
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Default Aug 19, 2014 at 07:27 AM
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Well, as a bisexual male when it comes to penetrative sex, I prefer vaginal when I am the one using my penis, but I prefer an^l when I am the one receiving the penis. For me at least, when I have an^l sex my orgasms and ejaculation is much stronger and more pronounced, meaning it just feels much better. At the same time, maybe it's just the feminine side of me, but I absolutely adore the feeling of something inside of me, especially when it's controlled by someone else (ie. strap-on or real penis vs. dildo).
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Default Sep 14, 2014 at 02:17 AM
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In my experience it is because it's taboo people seem to find it more exciting.

If you read other posts in this thread they mention that we cannot even use the name of the act in a sexual and gender issues forum, but is it because it's not allowed that's making me want to say it more ?
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Default Sep 14, 2014 at 04:44 AM
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I used to love it...it felt dirty and wild! To begin with it was VERY painful. But the more you relax and the more you do it, the easier and nicer it becomes. Another thing, if you plan to do it, ensure you 'prepare'...hmm I don't know how to say this nicely, but a shower hose and some deep cleansing is a must to avoid the icky side of it.

Before you go ahead, please also be aware of the damage it can do. I think it will boil down to how big he is and how rough/gentle he is too.

I am now 33 and I haven't done it since I met my hubby (15 yrs). We tried it for fun a few yrs ago but the pain was too much to mention! And he isn't that into it anyway...we were just extremely drunk!

To go as far saying it is better than vaginal...er, no way! but then that's just me!

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Default Sep 14, 2014 at 04:46 AM
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My partner would like to penetrate me there but it didn't do much for me. Initially you have to get over the feeling that you want to go to the toilet, because that's what it feels like.

Haha yeah, I forgot about that feeling!

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Default Sep 14, 2014 at 04:48 AM
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Also, the bum opening is tight, hence the appeal!

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Imagine the biggest crap you've ever taken, now imagine t igoing back into your butt hole, then back out, and then back in. That's what it feels like -- a never ending crap.
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Default Sep 16, 2014 at 06:47 AM
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Hubby has started to get me ready, slowly. I did not enjoy it at all. I told him no more.

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Default Sep 16, 2014 at 12:13 PM
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allme... the preparations you mention make **** sex sound like a pain in the butt!
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allme... the preparations you mention make **** sex sound like a pain in the butt!
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Default Sep 24, 2014 at 10:55 PM
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My partner has been requesting **** lately. I am happy to oblige but I would rather she not ask me and we can just resume our normal sexual activities.
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Well, as a bisexual male when it comes to penetrative sex, I prefer vaginal when I am the one using my penis, but I prefer an^l when I am the one receiving the penis.
As a male there aren't exactly any other options . . .
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Default Sep 25, 2014 at 04:42 AM
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As a male there aren't exactly any other options . . .


Actually, as a male, IF my wife liked an@l, I would be the one giving with my penis. The same thing if I was with a guy. However, she doesn't and I like receiving.

So as a male I count at least two options for involvement with an@l sex.
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Actually, as a male, IF my wife liked an@l, I would be the one giving with my penis. The same thing if I was with a guy. However, she doesn't and I like receiving.

So as a male I count at least two options for involvement with an@l sex.
You said when you were receiving you preferred it in the butt . . . it just seems to me there are no other options. You could take it in the mouth, but that would just be oral sex.
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