**** VS Vaginal

Alternately, we could call it butt bumping, assimilation, boinking the butthole, rear ending the Audi, a poop-shoot pole dance, etc...but don't you dare write **** sex.

This band would work, too:

never even thought of **** . Not appealing. There's a perfectly good opening nearby... and it's more attractive, IMHO.

Well, as a bisexual male when it comes to penetrative sex, I prefer vaginal when I am the one using my penis, but I prefer an^l when I am the one receiving the penis. For me at least, when I have an^l sex my orgasms and ejaculation is much stronger and more pronounced, meaning it just feels much better. At the same time, maybe it's just the feminine side of me, but I absolutely adore the feeling of something inside of me, especially when it's controlled by someone else (ie. strap-on or real penis vs. dildo).

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I used to love it...it felt dirty and wild! To begin with it was VERY painful. But the more you relax and the more you do it, the easier and nicer it becomes. Another thing, if you plan to do it, ensure you 'prepare'...hmm I don't know how to say this nicely, but a shower hose and some deep cleansing is a must to avoid the icky side of it.

Before you go ahead, please also be aware of the damage it can do. I think it will boil down to how big he is and how rough/gentle he is too.

I am now 33 and I haven't done it since I met my hubby (15 yrs). We tried it for fun a few yrs ago but the pain was too much to mention! And he isn't that into it anyway...we were just extremely drunk!

To go as far saying it is better than vaginal...er, no way! but then that's just me!

Haha yeah, I forgot about that feeling!

Also, the bum opening is tight, hence the appeal!

Oh my god this made me laugh so hard.

Hubby has started to get me ready, slowly. I did not enjoy it at all. I told him no more.

allme... the preparations you mention make **** sex sound like a pain in the butt!

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My partner has been requesting **** lately. I am happy to oblige but I would rather she not ask me and we can just resume our normal sexual activities.

As a male there aren't exactly any other options . . .

Actually, as a male, IF my wife liked an@l, I would be the one giving with my penis. The same thing if I was with a guy. However, she doesn't and I like receiving.

So as a male I count at least two options for involvement with an@l sex.

You said when you were receiving you preferred it in the butt . . . it just seems to me there are no other options. You could take it in the mouth, but that would just be oral sex.

LMAO Goodness guys

I guess it's just the reference point. In a general context, I prefer receiving from a guy, orally or "in the butt". However, in the context of solely an@l sex, where a guy can give using his penis, or receive another penis, I prefer to receive. It's just a preference.

What?

It's not like I can talk about this around the dinner table or at the water cooler at work...

And you (as the OP) did open up the discussion for guys. I originally replied to the post so as to give the perspective of a person that can and has given and received. You may find it odd, but even though I have vaginal intercourse with my wife, and have received an@l from other men and my wife, I for some reason can't give an@l to anyone. A slightly imbalanced situation.

I don't enjoy it, I just do it to please my partner. She taunts me during **** sex, asking me 'is that all you got'? and so forth. She's just being playful, but I think she also does it to make me more aggressive, which I guess is what she wants.

Hello I definitely prefer **** rather than vaginal because it's really intense the pleasure is magnified for me I instantly can orgasm from **** compared to vaginal I think it has something to do with their being ultra sensitive... but Buzz bee I totally recommend buying a small **** toy buy the smallest vib get use to it an just slowly work yourself into more serious penetration let your partner know it's takes time an gallons of lube.. Lol but totally try it! It feels soo incredible and if you like even a small amount of pain it will tip you over the edge ! Just be very sanitary have a safe word if you never tried it so he knows when to be slow or stop and have fun