[Alox]

i have a girlfriend who's around my age. I'm still young but I am only physically and sexually attracted to women between the ages 35-50. She wants to get intimate and i usually go along but it takes me a long while to get aroused since I'm repulsed by her physically, I would rather find one of my older women I have been intimate with in the past and have sex with them. I'm trying not to hurt my girlfriend which is why I am scouring the internet for answers to this situation I have been in since my teen years. Does anyone have an answer for me or are experiencing similar problems?

[TheWell]

She shouldn't be your girlfriend if you are repulsed by her. You should find a girlfriend who you are attracted to. It's not fair to your girlfriend who could find a guy who finds her attractive.

I don't understand why is she your g/f if you like older woman ?
Seems like your wasting her time and yours .

[lilypup]

I agree...find a gf you like. You ARE wasting her time and will eventually kill her ego.

[ChipperMonkey]

Please break up with her. You shouldn't have a girlfriend who disgusts you. You shouldn't be having sex with someone who disgusts you. There is nothing wrong with preferring older women. And honestly, now is the time to embrace your preference as the cougar trend is really taking off. You deserve to be with someone who rocks your world, and she deserves to be with someone who truly desires her.

[hamster-bamster]

Read the classic British novel "Theatre," after you have broken up with this poor young lady whom you are mistreating, as everybody has pointed out.

I think your first issue is not about whom to have sex with next, but how to break up with your current gf in the most courteous, chivalrous, thoughtful way. It can be done.

That seems a bit harsh. There is more to most relationships than sex. Maybe they have a great relationship otherwise. I do agree that if he hasn't told his gf about his situation, he should tell her.