[dephenry]

Hi

yes i am still virgin in 30 years old age.

Regardless of why i am virgin what issues does it cause?!

[Harley47]

Issues as in effects directly related to being a virgin? None, really...lol it's not a "use it or lose it" type of thing down there. There's no real shame in being a virgin...it's such a socially enforced bit of nonsense that truly has no relevance.

So as far as direct effects of being a virgin, I don't think there's anything to worry about, really.

[smatrass]

Side effects of virginity include unbridled freedom from never having to deal with children and their trappings, better overall happiness with oneself from not needing a partner for validation, zero percent chance of STDs, and plenty of time for more interesting pursuits like video games and music!

I'm 31 and a virgin. Ain't nobody got time for that nonsense!

[AppalachianAxis]

Hey, I'm a Virgin at 21 and plan on staying that way for a loooong time. Forever, in fact, if I have anything to say about it. Fortunately, I haven't sprouted any extra limbs or suffered any other horrible disabilities as of yet! And I doubt that you will either! If evolution or biology decided to punish us for not getting in our due quota of do'n it, we'd all be in sad shape indeed. Don't fret!

[growlithing]

Being voluntarily celibate causes no issues. Being involuntarily celibate can cause lots of psychological problems. Wanting to have sex and never having it is a problem and can harm someone's self esteem. Not wanting to have sex and not having it has no downside at all. So it's all in how you feel about it.

[AppalachianAxis]

Originally Posted by growlithing

Being voluntarily celibate causes no issues. Being involuntarily celibate can cause lots of psychological problems. Wanting to have sex and never having it is a problem and can harm someone's self esteem. Not wanting to have sex and not having it has no downside at all. So it's all in how you feel about it.

Falling into the former camp, I'd go on to say that wanting to be celibate can even boost one's self-esteem. I take a certain kind of pride in not being what people expect me to be. And I take even more pride in sticking to my own personal moral standards.

[Happy Camper]

I think just for health reasons a person should masturbate at least 1-3 times a week, but an orgasm is an orgasm. Being virgin doesn't cause any physical problems.

I wouldn't say there's zero chance for stds by not having ever had sex. STDs are a broad category, and many have other means of transmission. I've almost stepped on hypodermic needles, and I've had the occasional wart or two spring up on a finger or toe (which is caused by one of many strands of HPV, and although it's rare, HPV that likes one type of skin can migrate to another region such as the genitals). The first wart on my finger showed up around age 4 or 5, and was most likely from touching something someone else with the virus touched.

Bad blood transfusion or simply being born with an STD from one's own mother is a possibility, too.

[Angelornot]

Originally Posted by dephenry

Hi

yes i am still virgin in 30 years old age.

Regardless of why i am virgin what issues does it cause?!

IMO the only side affect is less regrets.

[dephenry]

actually i have Frequent urination about 8 or 9 times a day and my dr. said it is because you don't have sex

[Koko2]

It can cause issues at your workplace or job interviews where being perceived as gay because you're older and unattached may cause you to miss out on job promotions or being hired. As you get older, job interviewers will inquire about your sexual status in indirect ways such as saying that their "job has a flexible schedule which is great for people with children and, by the way, do you have any children?"

[RTerroni]

I am also 30 and still a virgin but I consider myself to be Asexual so I really have no desire to have it at all.

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by Koko2

It can cause issues at your workplace or job interviews where being perceived as gay because you're older and unattached may cause you to miss out on job promotions or being hired. As you get older, job interviewers will inquire about your sexual status in indirect ways such as saying that their "job has a flexible schedule which is great for people with children and, by the way, do you have any children?"

In the US it is illegal to ask that question.

[RTerroni]

Originally Posted by hamster-bamster

In the US it is illegal to ask that question.

I don't believe it is

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by RTerroni

I don't believe it is

It is not something to believe or not believe, but know. Why do you think a CV in Europe includes marital status and age, but a resume in US does not?

[Travelinglady]

For that matter, people can be celibate even when married......

Being perceived as gay? I hope that's less of an issue than in the past. If not, then just date around.....And have fun on dates, not having to wonder about what will or will not happen in the back seat or the bedroom at the end of the night.

And choose someone else who is not expecting sex on the third date, but wants to be pickier.

30 year old virgin by choice? I say, "Congrats for not giving in to societal pressure and individual expectations."

Sex for one can be great, if folks don't mind my saying so. Your partner always know exactly what you want and when you want it!

[RTerroni]

Originally Posted by Travelinglady

For that matter, people can be celibate even when married......

and I know some that are (mostly Asexual couples although in their case its not really being celibate) and there is nothing wrong with that

[RTerroni]

Personally I think that sex just scares me too much.

[HALLIEBETH87]

Im 27 and I am a virgin!

[Secretum]

22 year old virgin here. It is nice to have never had a pregnancy scare, but at the same time I feel like I'm missing out on a crucial part of what it means to be an adult.

[BDPpartner]

Originally Posted by dephenry

actually i have Frequent urination about 8 or 9 times a day and my dr. said it is because you don't have sex

I've not heard of this being a cause of water frequency issues, you live and learn.

My friend is the other extreme to much intercourse means she can not go more than 30 mins without a bathroom break, but she has found Cutting back on caffeine and or blackcurrants has help elevate it.

Originally Posted by dephenry

Hi

yes i am still virgin in 30 years old age.

Regardless of why i am virgin what issues does it cause?!

Women are missing out " Casanova " and is that fair ? No.

Get it out of your pants and be a Man.