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Old Sep 05, 2014, 06:42 AM
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I think piercings and tattoos are incredibly sexy and they make me feel sexy. My husband has one small tattoo. I have about 10 mostly large tattoos, piercings: notrils, septum, navel and nipples.

What do you think? I have a hard time telling what my husband thinks about things like that.

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Old Sep 05, 2014, 06:48 AM
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My boyfriend told me he doesnt like tattoos but mine is pretty and he never thought he could like girl with a tattoo.
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 06:54 AM
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I thinks tat look sexy on men and women. I have really big trendy tats. My style is couture alt with a twist of Emo. That's how I describe it. Big I'm surprised more guys don't like it. Maybe they see it as masculine.
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 07:15 AM
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my husband says he thinks tattoos are sexy. I've been so much wanting to get a large one on my back of a cherry blossom, but we both have our doubts that I can do it without fainting! More than that though they are very expensive.

"Not into piercings", he says. I'm sure there are plenty of men who are, though.
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 07:23 AM
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Maybe they don't know. Lol. My nipple rings turn my husband on but he won't admit to loving them.
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 04:08 PM
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Piercings for me are a mixed bag. Some can be awesome (navel piercings are....), but others (corsets, for example) are...not quite so hot. To me, anyway.

Tattoos depend on the tattoo. I've always appreciated them for the art rather than for the location or quantity. I've thought of getting a small one, but I'm terribly phobic of needles.
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 04:23 PM
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I don't know what a closet piercing is. I was going to get my license to practice body piercings but it's unstructured and pretty much a year long internship where there are usually two other interns and then after the year they pick who they want to stay. I think they should go to school for 9 mths and at least get a certificate, make a portfolio.

Anyway, I don't have anything untraditional in the way of piercings. I do have a lot of tats but they all have meaning. My last was a Jericho Rose with "Mom " on top and "Dad" on bottom, on the front side of my left shoulder I also have a hibiscus "tramp stamp," lol, my daughter's first and middle name covering the inside of my left bicep, a Victorian crown on my outer right biceps, the lyrics to a Green Day song on my left ribs, "Little Monster" written vertically down the side of my right abdomen, the letter "K" for my mom's name on the side of my right foot, my nickname surrounded by stars on one ankle, a heart with wings and a halo on the other ankle.

I want many more but they are expensive even thought I know the guys and they give me discounts.

Well I feel sexy with every tat and piercing which gives me more confidence which is a good thing
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 04:28 PM
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If it's artistically done and has great meaning for the person, I can find it attractive.
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 04:58 PM
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Im a plain Jane. Dont care for either.
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 05:13 PM
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You asked for the truth. I think tattoos and piercings are ugly and a real turn-off.
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 05:25 PM
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I asked for opinions. But yeah, that's cool too. Lol.
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 05:26 PM
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I guess knowing the age group of everyone would be helpful in my consensus.
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 05:27 PM
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Im a plain Jane. Dont care for either.
I don't see it as plain Jane I see it as natural and I think natural is best. I'm not sure how getting a mouthful of metal can be sexy. To each his/her own tho.
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 11:02 PM
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I love both, they just call to me - most all that is. I don't care for gauges or some tats. My wife is polar opposite. Turned off by both.
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Old Sep 05, 2014, 11:38 PM
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Newbie - A corset is a back piercing...or more appropriately a set of piercings. There's a series of ring like...rings...through which a lace or ribbon is ran through, giving the appearance of the back portion of an old Victorian corset. I had an ex who really, really wanted one...lol didn't have the heart to say I wasn't a fan, given her enthusiasm (plus it's not really my choice anyway) and things didn't last long enough for it to have become much of anything.
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As long as they are not overdone or in the wrong place, like her face or all over her breasts.

I like piercings, again as long as they are on the right spot and not everywhere.
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Old Sep 06, 2014, 01:03 PM
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Old Sep 06, 2014, 02:43 PM
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I think it very much depends on the person. I think less people suit tattoos/piercings than the amount of people with tattoos/piercings. They're so ubiquitous now they're conventional...it's like a backwards joke. Meh, people are entitled to do whatever they want.
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Old Sep 06, 2014, 06:18 PM
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You asked for the truth. I think tattoos and piercings are ugly and a real turn-off.
I would almost agree. One exception for me is those ... how do I explain?.. white crystals on the side of one nostril. I like them only on dark-skinned (East Indian or Black women) I find them beautiful and not just beautiful, but extraordinarily beautiful. That glistening sparkle accompanied by a dazzling smile and warm brown eyes - nothing is better.
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Old Sep 11, 2014, 02:23 AM
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I love nice ink on pretty much anybody but never thought of in a sexual context per se. Piercings on the other hand can be a real turn on. Nipple piercings to be precise. But that's just me and you brought it up.
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Old Sep 11, 2014, 10:07 AM
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I dislike tattoos very much. Piercings are tolerable for me, except nipple or genital ones. My girlfriend has 3 tattoos and I wish that she didn't have any. If I could have found a girl without tattoos that would've been great, but unfortunately most people today have tattoos.

She has one large flowery tattoo covering her foot, which isn't that bad...but she has one on her breast and her neck too. She tells me she wants to get a large one across her back and I told her that I really wish she wouldn't but she says it's something she always wanted, so I can't stop her.

For my girlfriend to get a tattoo would huge negative impact on me as her boyfriend for a number of reasons. It messes with our relationship because it makes me feel as though she trusts the tattoo artist more than she trusts me. It disturbs my core mentally especially if the artist is a male. She is allowing this guy to permanently mark her body however he wants. To be honest it is harmful to me mentally. Lastly, I simply do not care for tattoos on the human body whatsoever. I do not think we should be permanently marking our bodies up - it is not a religious thing with me, it is just how I feel personally. I don't find them attractive or sexy at all. To me, natural skin is more attractive. If you like art and you want people to see it, make a painting and sell it or some other form of art, don't get tattoos.
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Old Sep 11, 2014, 10:52 AM
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piercings are hot on either sex as long as they're no gauges or plugs. When it comes to tattoos I prefer my men with more tattoos (sleeves), while I prefer my women to have small, softer fewer tattoos. Tattoos in general are a huge turn on but it also depends of what and where on either sex.
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I think piercings and tattoos are incredibly sexy and they make me feel sexy. My husband has one small tattoo. I have about 10 mostly large tattoos, piercings: notrils, septum, navel and nipples.


What do you think? I have a hard time telling what my husband thinks about things like that.

I find tattoos and piercings incredibly sexy. Like seriously, it's always been a turn on for me. My husband is the opposite, he doesn't like my piercings or tattoos and doesn't have any either. I have 6 tattoos, and 8 piercings (ears, eyebrow, nose, lip, Monroe, nipples) and I've taken some piercings out because he doesn't like them. Maybe more women like them on men then men do on women?
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Old Sep 18, 2014, 04:28 AM
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I'm not sure if I said what I USED to have as piercings: nips, septum, navel, nostril (still). Everything closed up and wouldn't heal except my nostril. Anything else I want redone will have to be silver of gold. Expensive!

My avatar is my latest tat. My artest is pretty good plus we go way back so I get a discount. Lol.
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Old Sep 18, 2014, 05:05 AM
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I find tattoos and piercings incredibly sexy. Like seriously, it's always been a turn on for me. My husband is the opposite, he doesn't like my piercings or tattoos and doesn't have any either. I have 6 tattoos, and 8 piercings (ears, eyebrow, nose, lip, Monroe, nipples) and I've taken some piercings out because he doesn't like them. Maybe more women like them on men then men do on women?
I think they are extremely sexy on women (I'm still straight, lol). More so than guys. A guy with tats to me is only sexy by what tats he has, and tattoo placement plays a huge part in the sexiness. I have the verse of song by my all time fave band (Green Day), tatted on the side of my ribcage, "Little Monster" (Lady Gaga) tatted vertically down my side in script and the Jericho rose on my shoulder below my collarbone. Sexiest places in my opinion. Oh and muscular inside forearm. I'm actually thinking about having a pinup sailor girl on my inside forearm. She would have meaning to me. Just have to save for that one. Lol
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