[Attrix]

I am a 28 year old male, and I have had this issue since I first started having sex. I have a very hard time having an orgasm, especially through intercourse. I have been married and divorced and while this was not the only factor for the divorce, it definitely put more of a strain on it that did not need to be there.

I've been dating for several years now and had different sexual partners and found that I still have the same problem. It is just damn hard to have an orgasm. I can achieve one, but only really through oral or with the hand. I have tried everything I can think of and now turning to help on the web. Maybe someone with more experience with this issue.

I am very open, maybe because this is mostly anonymous, but I want help. I will answer any question to the best of my ability. Can anyone help?

[hamster-bamster]

Effexor? Are you taking Effexor for depression?

[Attrix]

Originally Posted by hamster-bamster

Effexor? Are you taking Effexor for depression?

I do not take anything other than a 1x a day men's vitamin. Maybe an occasional OTC pain medicine.

[rdonegone2]

Originally Posted by Attrix

I am a 28 year old male, and I have had this issue since I first started having sex. I have a very hard time having an orgasm, especially through intercourse. I have been married and divorced and while this was not the only factor for the divorce, it definitely put more of a strain on it that did not need to be there.

I've been dating for several years now and had different sexual partners and found that I still have the same problem. It is just damn hard to have an orgasm. I can achieve one, but only really through oral or with the hand. I have tried everything I can think of and now turning to help on the web. Maybe someone with more experience with this issue.

I am very open, maybe because this is mostly anonymous, but I want help. I will answer any question to the best of my ability. Can anyone help?

Hay buddy it sounds like you are a girls dream. But I tell yu what try pushing the envelope. Like do something to your partner that may be "out if bounds, Kinky" and as you're trying this, ONLY TRYING the physical of action of trying to get away with this will get you off. remember only try do not hurt or embarrass your partner just push it a bit.

[hamster-bamster]

Then you need to see a doctor. A multi vitamin and an occasional pain medicine cannot be culprits

[SnakeCharmer]

Well, if you feel open and if this is anonymous I might have some info that could help you, but your opening post doesn't provide enough info to go forward, so I have some questions ... very personal. I won't be offended if you ignore them.

1. How often do you masturbate? If daily, how many times?

2. Do you watch porn and how often and what kind?

3. Have most of the women you've been with given birth?

4. Did you have a religious or otherwise very traditional upbringing?

5. Are you willing to change your own behaviors and/or beliefs?

I'll come back later this afternoon to see if you felt like answering any of those questions. If so, I might have some suggestions. Sorry for being so personal!