Group sex how you feel about it?

I am asking the opinion of generally of what do you feel about group sex, as in from threesomes to foursomes with all kinds of different people and personalities.
I made this discussion, because I have lots of stingy friends who think I'm a ***** about it which I don't want that shame. I don't care what you do with whomever, not here to judge. Seriously, I wanted to see on other people's opinions generally. I've not had it, but I am more than excited about it. I'm single, but I'd prefer to be more sexually active in this fetish of mine when it comes to this generally.
This is my first discussion about this, so I'd love to hear opinions. So go ask your own questions. No hate or slut shaming not tolerating it. I won't be monitoring this regularly, but I'd love honest feedback opinions what you think works and what you like or dislike about it.
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Where do I sign up to the group?

I think it is perfectly fine between however many ppl! My husband and I have had a few experiences and I was part of a threesome relationship (with a man and his wife) for a year before I met my hubby.

As long as everyone is safe and consenting, I don't see a problem!

I've never had it. I don't care if I was in a relationship or not. Oh yea exactly.
If everyone is consenting. I'm all down for it. I just find it more exciting, in a way more easier for me to be comfortable sexually.

I love the first comment. Lmao

I've had a few threesomes but they were never really a group thing, mainly just two men pleasuring one women. I've never truly been sexually free to act as I want. I believe that I would readily welcome group sex provided all parties are comfortable with the various different combinations of partners (M/M, F/F, M/F, MMF, MMM, MFF, FFF, etc). The reality is that I would love to have my wife get truly sexually satisfied by men or women because I cannot due to my disability. At the same time, I would love to have the chance to enjoy all the aspects of pleasuring other men without restriction.
I'd sign up for this group too!

I think it's great but there needs to be an awareness of emotional involvement - if it's with people you don't really know (providing you have a history of their health etc.) then fine, if it's with people you're already in a relationship with (like menage a trois and polygroups) then that's also fine. But when it comes to experiencing this sort of thing with friends...yeah it can get tricky. I think it takes rather a lot of trust to be honest - even people you don't know so well can make known such experiences quite easily these days...i wonder how many people have ended up on pornographic websites without even realizing it. There's a big market for threesome videos etc.

Personally i prefer this sort of this to be kept within a poly relationship - sex is better with people you care for anyway.

Just make sure everything's safe, sane and consensual.

It makes good porn, good fantasy, but I wouldn't do it. Realistically I find it hard enough to maintain a relationship with one person.

I wouldn't find the relationship part of it too difficult for me to handle. The thing is, I wouldn't know about the other people, and being mindful of the person I'm in a relationship with or a certain friend etc. Honestly, certain friends I wouldn't do it with, a lot are guy friends and certain female friends, mainly because of my current relationship with them. I used to believe it would apply to everyone else, but I think if it did happen with a certain friend of mine like that, and I had a threesome with him or her with their friend or gf. Etc, I would be open to it, I wouldn't say no if they came to me asking me, but I wouldn't want to nor would like to ask to. It would come off as awkward later on the few people I am referring to, but not all my friends are like this. A lot of them aren't, it's only a selective few.

I'm open to poly, and I would want to be more sexually free. This is just another branch is how I look at it of something I've been very interested in doing.
The most important thing other than the other most important thing of consent, above all having fun.
I'd like to be a fun crowd than party poopers and complainers.

For me personally, I've never had much of a care for sex. Not much desire for it, and what desire I do have within me, I have only ever wanted to share with someone I'm very very close with(which is next to no one over the course of my life, but my wife fills that role now.) So honestly I'd have probably zero desire for group sex. Intimacy is hard enough for me one on one.

As for other people? So long as everyone involved is consenting, I don't think it's for me to judge. I think people should be free to pursue their desires and do what is pleasurable to them(unless their idea of pleasure is someone else's unwanted pain, of course).

Exactly, I'm more open minded and have grown enough emotionally to find in myself what I like, and appreciate it more, but it doesn't mean if it works for me it works for everyone of course. I'm glad you found what's best for you. I appreciate it when girls I like if I do bring it up whenever, to tell me if they like it or interested in it or not. The honesty is all I care about, but deep down I want to just for my own self interests in freedom and pursuit of having things I want to be done in my life.

In terms of sexual fantasies and fetishes, anything goes as long as it is consensual and legal. If three (or more) adults want to engage in group sex, then there is no issue as long as they're all on the same page in terms of what it is/is not and as long as any potential jealousies are checked at the door.

I know a few people who have done threesomes when they were younger, but it was always more of two people pleasuring one, ie two men pleasuring a woman, etc, and in that sense it wasn't a true threesome as not all parties were involved with each other.

I have no interest personally in having sex with more than one person at a time. I have plenty of my own fetishes and fantasies which I do want to act out, but having a threesome is not one of them.

If that's what you want, there's nothing wrong with it!

I know what you're talking about. People my age are into stuff like that more when it comes to threesome. That's like the first thing that comes to their mind, but I don't see anything wrong with it if everyone is on the same page and it's all consensual. I've noticed it too, keep in mind I'm only 20. I've seen it as a common thing. I was invited one time to be in one, but I was not feeling well, because of drugs.
I highly suggest don't do one if you're on drugs or especially drinking preventing further drama and stupidity. I don't see having sex whatever way you want whether on whatever substance with people is bad, except when people are really stupid. I don't do drugs anymore, I drink sometimes when I'm with a group of my closest friends not at random parties, but one party I was at I had it offered. I was feeling sick from smoking too much weed back then and that wouldn't had been good. Interestingly enough, I was very turned on to the fact about that weird situation.

So I like it, for more possibilities in my perspective, but of course everyone has to be on the same page for it to be fun or else why do it?

I did a little bit of research over the weekend, which I thoroughly enjoyed BTW, based on this topic. I searched for and watched a number of "group sex" porn videos, especially the bisexual variants where there really are no restrictions on who puts what where. It's funny but i noticed that most of these people in the videos aren't really focussing on the sexual act that they are in the middle of. They all seem to be looking around at the others to see who's looking at them.
Maybe it a product of the fact it is a staged porn event, but were I to engage in group sex, I would still be very much focussed on pleasuring the person I'm with.

I have not done it, but I like the idea of being with two men instead of one. The men would have to be straight though. Also, it depends on the man. With some, I would not want to pair them, but with others, I would.

Once, I left a bf to be with another young man. The previous bf OD'd, trying to commit suicide. He was taken to a hospital and survived. He then asked the newer bf (they knew each other well) if he'd agree to a menage a trois, because he was desperate to continue seeing me and he thought of this as a solution. The newer bf refused. I would never forgive myself for staying with the newer bf and not saying "bye" and leaving with the earlier bf who by then had proven his devotion to me. I will never ever forgive myself for that. But - my mistake is now an awesome guy and already an adult, so I do not regret anything.

BTW the earlier bf eventually died of suicide - he had a serious case of bipolar disorder.

woah.. That's intense. I mean, you're not alone most females that I know of who would consider it would rather be with two males. Many times I meet females who are more bisexual consider both with two guys another girl and a guy threesome or just all out lesbian orgy.