mmm sex

I can see us women in a store with a vibrator up to our noses lol oh just the image of that one lol

bebop, I was picturing that, too! "Excuse me, Sir, could I open those vibrators--especially that super big one--and hold them against my nose? I want to make sure I get the right one!"

I don't think there's anything wrong with sex outside of marriage or a serious relationship, and I wouldn't feel guilty to do that, but I do prefer sex and love together, in a relationship.

lmao i have been to an anne summers party to try the nose thing lol - it may be a brit thing though

heeheee

jinny xoxoxoxox

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jinnyann said:
i say each to their own really, dont have to do anything you're uncomfortable with.

jin(blushing slightly) xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

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LOL, Jinny. I have a pocket rocket too. I also have a bunny vibe. I like them both.

juliana (blushing slightly) xoxoxooxox

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I can see us women in a store with a vibrator up to our noses lol oh just the image of that one lol

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LOL!

Haha I can imagine that too. That would be really funny.

I'm only 16 though, I only like having sex with my boyfriend. We've been together for a while now, and he's been my first so no biggie. Sucks though, my parents want me to go to his house tonight -- no sex. (Atleast my mom knows we have sex)

Sometimes i wish i had a vibe to get through this, plus I just got off my period. Grrrr.....I'm urging hehe.

Oh, you're so young. That makes me feel all motherly and want to warn you to be careful, etc. So, please do be careful. I waited until I was 19 to have sex because I wasn't emotionally mature enough when I was in high school... and I was TERRIFIED of getting pregnant. I wanted to go to college. I had lots of goals and I was determined that an unexpected pregnancy was not going to interfere with my plans. I'm glad I waited until I was ready.

I know I'm young. But I'm on the pill and use condoms. I'm mature for my age I'd say though. I have a goal that I want to be when I'm older, a psychologist or counsellor, but if I have my own problems, I'm not so sure that's a great job for me.

I don't think that having problems precludes you from being a psychologist. One of my friends struggles with depression and she's a therapist... and a damn good one. I think her own experience with psychological problems makes her more empathetic.

So, if you want to be a psychologist, I say GO FOR IT!

okay.....i'm going to digress but this is funny. a friend gave me a pocket rocket......i put it in a kitchen drawer. this last time i moved, one of the helpers was unloading that drawer and that rocket went off!!! he nearly jumped out of his skin as i threw myself over the drawer and yelled "i'll do that"............i had forgotten about the darned thing being in there...........he didn't see it and i still giggle when i picture the scene..........they are very loud when they're rolling around in a kitchen drawer..........

LMAO!!! That's so funny. I keep my bunny in my lingerie drawer and sometimes it turns itself on. I think it's because this house is so old and sometimes the vibration of traffic going by makes the house shake. It has scared the crap out of me on a number of occasions.

I went into the staff room at my previous job one day and everyone in there was talking about how much they loved their Pocket Rockets. I thought WTF? We're a little open here, aren't we? This doesn't seem like appropriate professional conversation! I turns out there's a kitchen tool -- some sort of grinder/blender thing -- called a Pocket Rocket and there had been a sale on them at Costco and everyone had bought one. Appently, they're handy little gadgets.

lol when I was driving a truck I kept mine in my shower bag. well my dad went with me for a couple of weeks and I was getting ready to go into the truck stop for a shower. well I got my bag out and put it on the side of the truck and mine turned itself on lol. my dad was like what is that buzzing? I know I must have been red but I told him it was my battery operated toothbrush lol

I don't mean to suddenly sound like a prude but I don't think I will post in this one anymore. not with kids in here. just makes me too uncomfy.

you've got a point..........

i find it funny that people get squeemish about 'kids' being here when there are so very many sex related sites on the net... and when the only 'kid' who is here is someone who is already sexually activity.

i don't have a problem with sexual activity at 16 as that is the legal age of consent in NZ and there are a fair few who are sexually active at 14 or 15 (though i'll admit that thought makes me a little squeemish).

of course most kids (probably all kids) masterbate... and we are mostly talking about the use of masterbation aids. it its all 'normal' and 'healthy' then there shouldn't be a problem.

i'm personally of the opinion that it is good for kids to find out about sex honestly and in a forum where they can ask questions and the like. hopefully in a forum like this misinformation about birth control and myths (about the withdrawal method being effective contraception and %#@&#! intercourse not counting as sex) will be dispelled. probably better for them to seek information from here (where there are adults) than friends who might not be so well informed.

anyway...

i do see sex as a loving act. mostly. i also see sex as a recreational act sometimes. i don't see why acts of love between two strangers is so foreign to people. i've had some really very loving sex with a guy who i considered a good friend. we weren't having a realtionship. but it was a loving act.

i mean... how much is your bunny providing a loving act for you? i would have thought that would be less loving than an encounter with a stranger can be...

how much love are you providing ourselves WITH the bunny is what we're talking about. self-love exists. there are those of us use aids and those who don't........i think the subject has been exhausted and i'm beginning to become annoyed with the repetition of the "argument"..........i'm out of this thread for good. my good.......not the kids...........pat

i'm sorry you don't feel like participating in the discussion anymore.

i'm sorry (for me) that this thread got diverted from the original topic too. i was hoping to talk about that... but people did want to talk about their bunnies (despite my expressing my feelings on that and trying to bring the topic back around). i think that the set up of these forums are such that the original topic is often lost as the thread diverges. it is hard to direct responses to particular people and so it is hard to have a thread where there can be two lines of thought running concurrently. so the original topic got lost. but i don't begrudge people for wanting to talk about this.

i was responding mostly to those who didn't seem to think that you could have a loving sexual encounter with a stranger.

i was also responding mostly to those who seemed to think that sex was about love instead of recreation and so i guess i got to wondering whether it is that the bunny makes solo sex more recreationally satisfying (which is what i would have thought) or whether the bunny makes solo sex more loving. my point with that was that a little recreational sex is surely okay (so long as nobody is hurt because of it).

didn't mean to offend. i'm thinking... this board really doesn't seem to be the place for these kinds of upfront discussions on what people think. why? because instead of people celebrating their differences they seem to be more interested in defending the rightness of their view.

dunno...

what do i really mean to say here?

sigh.

i really hate it when people go 'off topic!' in response to peoples posts. i think it is nice that threads are able to evolve.

but there is something a little sad when the posters original issue (the reason they started the thread) is overlooked because of the way the thread evolved.

the thread was about my desire to have sex with an actual living person.

someone suggested getting a bunny and i said that i didn't want to do that for a variety of reasons.

and then people started posting about how wonderful bunnies are and so on and so forth at the expense of participating in the original topic.

or when they do post something about having sex with an actual living person who one is not in a long term relationship with they expressed disapproval.

so the thread isn't about supporting me or engaging in the topic at all.

it seems to have become about other people defending their views.

thats fine...

but maybe it would have been better for people to have started a thread of their own to talk about the virtues of bunnies. especially after i (as the thread starter) had made my feelings clear and had attempted to bring things around to the original topic.

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alexandra_k said:
i miss it :-(

a love affair... thats what i need...

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I understand what YOU are talking about here, for I too am needing that and I am married (21 yrs on Friday) - now if I can only get my husband to want an affair too - lol.

I just miss the way he couldn't keep his hands off me or always had to see me every day or be on the phone with me - talking until the wee hours of the morning..... I sure do miss that old feeling that always said "YOU ARE THE WORLD TO ME" loud and clear and with every little word and action.
Mmmmmmmmm

Now, don't get me wrong he still says all that - just in a different 42 year old man way..... not as fun.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

I don't feel you can have loving sex with a stranger. You can have gentle, friendly, caring sex, but it's not love. You can't love a person from the moment you meet them. You can respect them, care (in the sense you don't want to harm them or see them harmed), be nice to them, be kind to them, but love is an emotion that takes getting to know a person.