My weird Qs about sexuality

Hi,

has to be the first time to somehow, somewhere talk open about sexuality.
I would like to find answers to some Qs that I used to have. I appreciate Your ideas, sincerely.
1. I have not had many experiences with women's sexuality... Is it possible for a woman (say with normal to bit above average libido) to have an orgasm with the smallest amount of stimulation (lets say very mild stimulation but for quite long...) ehm... imagine a woman just sitting and moving her legs around a bit to stimulate ... possibly taking one of her legs up and sitting on her heel/foot. One condition to consider: Her mind is in an really aroused state. Is that possible... I am wondering about that... When yes, how does it showcase? I could imagine that she may lose her breath right? for moments... then heavy breathing, so the stimulation is in this case there for sure... But is that enough for an orgasm....

2. I have observed that my thoughts are sometimes going wrong way... or bit unusual...
Sometimes I find myself in obsession for discovering different experiences... It may be anything. I love to discover and experience my feelings in as many as possible different ways. Back to the point, I am a man... but I somehow suffer from the fact that I will never be able to experience what it is to be a woman... ehm... specially their sexuality...
I was thinking about this, I wonder where does this stem from? I am ok as a guy, I dont wish to "change" my gender... But somehow I just wonder how it feels as a woman... to have an orgasm, right? How it feels to have such sensitive spot on Your body... (Ive once read that men's genitals only have half or smthng of the sensitivity(nerve's endings) of women's genital parts). It's probably truth that women experience their sexuality during the act differently right? Mind, more need for touch.... Whole body as erotogenous zones...
A man only has this little stick... I feel that I envy the way women experience it, right..?
In my imagination, I also find the way of a woman "recieving" more pleasing than man's part... Women have sooo many ways for stimulating, right? Their whole body!! ... and the way their orgasm works... repetitive orgasms... and as a man I only have this plain stick between my legs... that's Boring!

I was wondering, where does these ideas come from in my mind, I dont know how people who wish to change their genders feel like. But I am sure I dont want to be a woman. It s just... I want to say unfair... I have had troublesome relationships with men, when I was growing up. For long, I have not been able and I still am not able to build friendship or close relationships with men. I dont like them. In my eyes each man's face is really unpleasent to me. Men also tend to be .... somehow primitive, just a bit more ... as far as sexuality concerns, no? ..biologically based, just the way our orgasm, stimulation needs work...I dont know... Its only my opinion, I dont mean to insult anyone.

This way I have always seen women as... in average as more valuable...
I dont think everything is at a good place here, so please... share Your suggestions for help.

1.) Well my wife can daydream her way to an orgasm, although it is not nearly as intense as one brought about by sexual contact.

2.) I can only speak about my own experiences but men can have multiple orgasms. Further more our nipples can be as sensitive as a woman's as can our neck with heavy breathing and nipping, sensitive places such as the ribs, back of the neck along the hairline, armpits, inner thighs, behind the knees and along the spine can be teased. Finally prostate massaging can heighten the orgasm and perhaps fill (the pun wasn't intended but I guess it fits) the desire to know what a woman would feel. There are many guides on how to go such things but my advise is to find a partner willing to experiment and go slowly taking your time with the foreplay.

1) I don't know, sorry.

2) I think there are more men that like to know how it feels for a woman than men that don't care. If i could i would also make this experiance. Although i forgot the source, i once read that most men would like to be a woman for a day if they had the chance.

1) Yes. Sexual arousal is largely in the mind, so it's totally possible for a woman to have an orgasm with just a little bit of stimulation.

As for your second question, Living Dead Guy answered it very well.