Confused.. ????

Last night my boyfriend txt me hes seeing someone else.. After 6 years of being off and ON he tells me this.. He has adhd and now thinks hes gay.. Wtf?
Is it him trying to push me away again whenever we get close in the relationship he has to push me away.. I dont get it .. I am a verry attractive woman men tell me he has also told me that.. We almst had sex but i pushed him away because of an injury.and then he said he still wants to keeep me as a friend?? Whats a girl to do?could it be a phase? How do u heal ur heart and ur soul after you feel like they been ripped out.. ? I cnt eat i cry and pass out to sleeep really depressed, disappointed and hurt

So everyone views my nightmare but no one has helpful advice?

Well, in answer to your first post ... you said it yourself. You're pretty and smart and don't deserve to have your emotions played with. Sounds like you need to kick him to the curb and go get yourself the man you deserve. Don't let him control your feelings and don't wait on him to make a decision, you need to take control of your life back and make the decision that's best for you and that's getting the person you rightly deserve.

And concerning your second post:
Dooood, gimme a minute

I am sorry. It is so painful. You need to end this. I honestly don't get on and off relationship. What does it even mean? Maybe that's why he thinks it is ok to date others. Relationship is either moving forward or it stops, on and off never works good luck to you

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Sounds like you two would be better off as friends - if you think feelings have cooled enough for both of you to the point that you could have a friendship. Give it time if you're not there yet. I'm not saying it's always best for people to be friends after break ups, but it could potentially work for you two. You're the best judge of that. If your ex bf has ADHD and is dealing with sexual orientation issues he could use a good friend. Meanwhile, you need to take good care of yourself - a break up is no excuse. Learn from the mistakes of this relationship and move on. Good luck!

Weve tried friends several times and the same out come he and i want a relationship

Let me see if I understand this right...... the 2 of you have been trying the relationship thing off & on for a while. That hasn't worked for various reasons. You also state that ya'll have tried the friendship thing and that also has not worked very well.
IHMO, if neither of these have worked satisfactorily, staying in any capacity is just hurting you. The only person you can change is YOU.
Wishing you well

He needs to put in as much effort as you in order to make the relationship work. Since he is in the process of figuring out personal issues like sexual orientation at the moment, it seems like he needs time before deciding whether he can committ to you for real or not. But don't sell yourself short. Think critically if this guy is worth the hurt he's putting you through. If not, take steps to move on. You don't want to continue with an on again / off again relationship as you will only feel increasingly hurt.