Question about woman I'm seeing

Hi everyone. I recently met a lovely younger woman 22 yrs old college student and boyfriend yea my bf and I met her man last week. I met her off a dating site as she contacted me. She is bi exploring her sexuality and seems really interested in me for a casual relationship which is fine as she doesn't want a gf while she has a bf.

We talk everyday lately it seems I'm not sure what to talk about. We have talked about our boyfriends school our jobs hobbies women etc. I feel bad I have been working on my communication skills for a long time just can't keep the conversation going I was great at communicating.

She hasn't asked me about doing stuff with her sexually yet which is why I want to ask her in person over lunch she said she would let me know when she will be free. She really enjoys my company and I enjoy hers. We have been seeing each other for a good while I feel it's time to ask. Also I'm 29 it was our very first double date with a couple.

So I don't know why do I feel like I'm still lagging in communicating? Should I ask if she wants to get together knowing she said she would let me know?

Communication can be tough under any circumstances and from what you describe things are going well. Do you want to sprinkle in some entertainment like a movie or concert? It would take some of the pressure off talking a lot and let you express ideas about a third person or stimulus.

If its not awkward you could see something sexy or scary. That's an old trick by straight guys to make a move. Anyway it might lead to talk about feelings you could say, You know I have these feelings for you and want to express them/You turn me on...

Everyone LIKES feeling they arouse feelings in others even if they are unsure of their own feelings. Even if they dont like the person, which in this situation you know she likes you so flattering her by announcing sincere attraction may work.

I asked her out to dinner she said that be great.

My husband and I have been looking for a woman to enter into our bedroom for some fun. We met a nice girl on an online community we participate in and we've had her over to our apartment several times now for coffee and a movie. It was discussed initially that sexual contact could be not he table if it felt right. Much like you she and I hit it off immediately. We have a lot of similar interests and have a lot of fun talking and hanging out with one another.

The possibility of a threesome has yet to come up in person. That sexual spark just isn't there even though we are great as friends, and that's ok. I would say if you feel that chemistry I would as her when you too ur to dinner. If she feels the same, that's awesome. If not, then you've gained a friend to have fun with in other ways.

I see she expressed a lot of interest but hasn't asked me to do anything sexual with her. My boyfriend said she's probably waiting for you to ask and could be shy I do agree. I would love for her to ask me

We haven't had dinner she had to cancel due to studying I hope I'm not reading into things but it's hard or maybe not to see if she wants to do anything. I know she's a busy student drives me crazy cuz I can't ask her the question I'd rather ask her in person not by text. She hasn't asked me lately now to do anything we are both part time especially for me it's really hard for me to spend money on other fun stuff. Feels like I gotta keep looking at lesbian porn since I'm interested in her for a casual relationship that's what we are looking for. We have been talking mostly through text. I feel like I'm not sure what to ask or talk about with her.

Could you tell us what happened? I've never been in this kind of situation, but maybe one day