Question to fellow females

I haven't masturbated ever and I'm a virgin too.

I've read a lot about how women please themselves.

I was wondering how do you know that now u want sex or want to masturbate?

My nips are always erect but still I don't touch myself below. I tried touching but it was no feeling. So, how do I know that I should masturbate or have sex?

Depends on the partner involved, I'd suppose? Arousal is arousal.

I suggest you read about how to pleasure yourself. There's a certain area in females that is the "arousal" area--the clitoris. Arousal is evident when the vagina starts lubricating. It starts happening on its own in women when they are interested in sex. Yes, nipple erection can be part of it, too. But that can occur for other reasons, such as being chilled.

I suggest you try it on yourself, if you want to. But if you don't feel so inclined yet, then don't worry about it. (I don't know how old you are.) Females take longer to get aroused than men do. I encourage you not to have sex for the sake of just saying you had it. There's no shame to being a virgin. In fact, in my book, it's something to be proud of in this day and age. (I am a married lady of 60.)

I know this thread is a few days old, but here's a site that should be helpful: Celebrating Female Sexual Diversity | The-Clitoris.com

It's all about female sexuality, and you might find some good answers there.

I'd recommend buying a vibrator if you want to try masturbating. If you're having trouble getting aroused, you could try either visualizing something you find appealing, reading something erotic, or watching porn. Just make sure you find a safe site if you do that last one.

Do you want to? Or do you feel you ought to?

SEX DOESNT START BETWEEN YOUR LEGS!!
It actually starts between your ears.
Your brain has to be in motion & your body will catch up