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Old Aug 04, 2015, 09:27 PM
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Hey everyone!

For a while now I have always known that I liked girls more than guys, but I still did like guys...I have found that I am ONLY attracted to guys PERSONALITIES, but not sexually at all. And that I am physically and sexually attracted to girls, but only really girly girls (not like barbie, more like Lolita fashion) and I do care about their personalities, just not as much I guess....I know it may sound rude or shallow, but I can't help it...I am not sure if this is even a sexuality, or just the way I am...

Is there any sexuality for this? I'm worried.
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Old Aug 06, 2015, 12:35 AM
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I think it's just a preference or perhaps fetish within your sexuality?
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Old Aug 06, 2015, 02:51 AM
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Perhaps, Idk. Maybe. But luckily I'm not ashamed or scared or anything, I was just curious as to if there was in fact a name. ^-^
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Old Aug 06, 2015, 06:00 AM
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Would it be something like heteroromantic homosexual? Where you only have feelings for the opposite sex, but physical feelings for the opposite sex? I don't know for certain as all these labels are new to me.
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Old Aug 06, 2015, 08:31 AM
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Hey!

You mean physical feelings towards the same sex? Then yeah, thank you! I'll look it up later and see if its what I think it is. ^-^
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Old Aug 06, 2015, 11:52 AM
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You mean physical feelings towards the same sex? Then yeah, thank you! I'll look it up later and see if its what I think it is. ^-^
Lol! Yeah, trying to remember that label got me so confused I got hooked on the word opposite. Darn kids with yer fluid sexuality and video games.
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Old Aug 10, 2015, 06:35 PM
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Hey DeadOfNyght`....
You brought up a very interesting concept for me,
Even tho it sounds like we have a BIG age difference, I can relate to your feelings somewhat.
I have ALWAYS been highly attracted to girls/women all my life..their personalities/looks/ and sexuality was always a strong attraction for me. However- I never felt that was with MEN but was attracted to their sexual "equipment" ever since early adolescents where the boys would explore together.

I don't consider myself BI b/c I never wanted to be intimate with a MAN himself,,,(does any of this makes sense?) I was just attracted to the penis (which confuses and embarrasses me)

Don't know if there is any specific name for this,,,but I do know I like it!
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Old Aug 11, 2015, 03:47 AM
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Hello!

I totally understand what you mean, and I am just not sure, and maybe it's best not to have all these complicated labels. Maybe we should just love who we love, for the reasons we like. ^_^
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Old Aug 11, 2015, 06:02 AM
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I totally understand what you mean, and I am just not sure, and maybe it's best not to have all these complicated labels. Maybe we should just love who we love, for the reasons we like. ^_^


Very well said. Sexuality isn't black and white. It's more of a sliding scale and just adds to our uniqueness.
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Old Aug 11, 2015, 08:46 AM
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Hey DeadOfNyght`....
You brought up a very interesting concept for me,
Even tho it sounds like we have a BIG age difference, I can relate to your feelings somewhat.
I have ALWAYS been highly attracted to girls/women all my life..their personalities/looks/ and sexuality was always a strong attraction for me. However- I never felt that was with MEN but was attracted to their sexual "equipment" ever since early adolescents where the boys would explore together.

I don't consider myself BI b/c I never wanted to be intimate with a MAN himself,,,(does any of this makes sense?) I was just attracted to the penis (which confuses and embarrasses me)

Don't know if there is any specific name for this,,,but I do know I like it!
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I don't know it there is a specific name, but I find that many, many men have the same attraction...it's not a same sex attraction to the whole of men...just penises. I'm curious as to why. Personally, I'm the same way...I don't focus on the body, though I have to say a man in good shape does accentuate the penis. Maybe it is an attraction to our own penis...and in absence of being able to pleasure outselves, we are drawn to others. Some may find it odd, but the only way my wife could be more perfect is if she had a penis.
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