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Grand Poohbah
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#21
I read about this and the link you sent me and I donīt see myself having this kind of phobia. I canīt relate to such specific symptoms and I donīt "hide" from sex. I enjoy watching soft and intimate sex in a movie for example and I also get aroused by that.
I hope there will be room for discussing this with a T, it also has to be the right T who is comfortable discussing it. Have you any personal experience of sharing something around sexuality with a T? How did it go? Quote:
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Grand Poohbah
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#22
Youīre worth those kind words and I appreciate being able to talk about this here. There arenīt many places to discuss those things.
Yes, even if I donīt remember how I processed what my mother told me about my father and their sex life I can see it can very much be that way, that I subconsciously have one and the same apprehension of men. Itīs a sorrow for me too, that I donīt know how love feels, I now mean love from and for a partner. I havenīt felt "friendship love" either, I would have wanted those close ties with another human. Quote:
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Grand Poohbah
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#23
Thanks for giving your perspectives on this, I appreciate it. Thanks for the words about how I express myself in my post.
I didnīt take any offense by what you said. I agree to what you say, I never was that kind of girl and now woman who fell in love or felt attracted to singers or "idols" in general. Iīve never felt or feel attracted just by looking at another person, I need to know more and feel that a person is appealing in other ways than just by looks. I have wondered "why" that is many times as I often heard about other girls talking about boys they found cute, especially in our teens but I never shared that experience with them. I think I feel a bit embarrased by just the thought of being attracted to someone, to want someone. I donīt know why that is. Quote:
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#24
Please consider a visit to a therapist because that can help dispel many notions about having sex and that will, I believe, ease the situation immensely.
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Grand Poohbah
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#25
Yes, I would really want a T to work with on those issues but itīs not that easy to find one. Do you mean a T could "explain" things around sex and because of that make me feel more at ease about how I feel about sex?
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