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Old Sep 22, 2015, 05:49 AM
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I'm just curious, for those who feel comfortable sharing, what are random things that you find arousing?

"Things" can include objects, books, fantasy characters, songs, or anything else of that nature.

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Old Sep 22, 2015, 05:52 AM
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For me it would have to be the song "Black and Silver" by Xandria. The vocals and lyrics make me want to drool and the front woman of Xandria is sexy as hell.

Seriously, almost every this song comes on Pandora, I have an urge to masturbate haha

Here's a link to the song for those who are interested:

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Old Sep 22, 2015, 06:31 AM
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Listening to my wife sleep. There's something about her breathing that just drives me nuts.
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Old Sep 22, 2015, 09:17 AM
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I am completely turned on by pregnant women. I sense their pheromones and it drives me wild.
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Old Sep 22, 2015, 09:42 PM
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Gagged women. Women gagged with duct tape, latex, etc.
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Old Sep 23, 2015, 01:04 AM
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Nothing-which is, indeed, a very random thing.
I am attracted to nothing and no one, yet there are times when I find myself aroused. No stimulus necessary. I find it a rather boring chore, so I will find ways to occupy my brain whilst my hand occupies my vagina. I once read the entire dictionary during a "session". It isn't that I find lexicon particularly arousing; it just so happened to be the only book in the house I hadn't read. If any were to walk in on me, they would certainly jump to that conclusion I'm sure.
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Old Sep 23, 2015, 01:15 AM
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Certain songs from my teen years arouse me despite that I was a virgin until my second year of college.
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Old Sep 23, 2015, 01:41 AM
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Patchouli, Ylang Ylang and a cologne that I don't even know if they still make called Tsar

music is hit or miss but certain tonal qualities in a person's voice. I find Peter Steele's voice really sexy...great shame that he died so young

being bitten or having my hair pulled
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Old Sep 23, 2015, 07:39 AM
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Centaurs turn me on...male, female or other.
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Old Sep 23, 2015, 09:27 PM
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I can't believe I forgot this one and I have no idea why it's a turn on...maybe because I grew up listening to glam bands

Men in lipstick and eyeliner other makeup is ok but just lipstick and eyeliner
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Old Sep 23, 2015, 09:33 PM
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Old Sep 24, 2015, 02:42 AM
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This may be the sleep deprivation speaking, but I find that I like watching oral sex in porn. I also like receiving it and giving it in person. Just drives me crazy when a guy goes down on me.

When in porn it can be either male on female, or female on female. Also the woman or women have to have natural semi large breasts. I don't like super flat chested women, nor women whose breasts are static and ball shaped. I like them nice and jiggly. Oh and I prefer completely shaved pubic areas on both men and women. Just looks hot to me. I even go Brazilian myself.

I am a picky lady when it comes to my porn.

But you want to know the most super random thing that arouses me? Smelling my fingers after inserting them into my belly button. Gross, I know, and I swear I don't do it intentionally. It's just that the smell reminds me somehow of the smell of a female vulva. I am weird, I know.
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Old Sep 24, 2015, 10:48 AM
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Ive sat here thinking about this. Many things arouse me. For me its a particular time of day. Also thinking of what it would be like with another woman. Neither random though i suppose.
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Old Sep 25, 2015, 05:13 AM
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Ursa turned me on as a kid, because she was so hot and confident and powerful.

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Old Sep 26, 2015, 09:37 AM
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When a gender change happens in a switch, a warm fuzzy feeling comes on that can cause arousal. The guys love it when the fems take over and visa-versa, especially if it's a sexualized alter fronting. I know, crazy...isn't it? Even thinking about it now is causing stirrings to a switch...gotta stop.

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Old Sep 26, 2015, 04:01 PM
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Interesting question. Certain songs from my tweens when I was just discovering my sexuality and my interest in girls really took off. Even though I'm still a virgin. Case in point: "Crash into Me" by the Dave Matthews Band. Not really that random I suppose. Also some Savage Garden songs, like "Truly Madly Deeply."

I can't really think of any other "things" that I can mention... I'm pretty normal I suppose. Maybe T-shirts and jeans on girls? I find it generally more arousing than "sexy" clothes like a little black dress or miniskirt. There's just something about casual wear, IMO. Also kissing. It doesn't even have to be foreplay or anything -- I get aroused at the idea of romance. Does that count?
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Old Sep 26, 2015, 10:50 PM
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Old Sep 27, 2015, 12:50 AM
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Girls who are more boyish looking, short hair, sophisticated clothes and when a girl tries to make me ticklish or laugh.

I do like randomly enjoy being overpowered by them alot. I also like different accents.
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Old Sep 27, 2015, 01:12 AM
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Girls who are more boyish looking, short hair, sophisticated clothes and when a girl tries to make me ticklish or laugh.

I do like randomly enjoy being overpowered by them alot. I also like different accents.
Mmm yeah, tomboys with short hair! Especially when they wear jeans/jean shorts and a T-shirt. So good.
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Old Sep 30, 2015, 12:12 PM
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Female characteristics (although not really random) that get me going are:

Puffy nipples visible under blouse.
Back dimples.
Long athletic legs.
Blondes with a tan.
A slight overbite!

Truly random things that are turn ons:
Bananas
Sunny-side up eggs
Hotel rooms.
Fresh, clean white sheets
Silk
Sleeping in a tent in the middle of the woods.
Blind folds.
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Old Oct 01, 2015, 09:15 AM
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This may be the sleep deprivation speaking, but I find that I like watching oral sex in porn. I also like receiving it and giving it in person. Just drives me crazy when a guy goes down on me.

When in porn it can be either male on female, or female on female. Also the woman or women have to have natural semi large breasts. I don't like super flat chested women, nor women whose breasts are static and ball shaped. I like them nice and jiggly. Oh and I prefer completely shaved pubic areas on both men and women. Just looks hot to me. I even go Brazilian myself.

I am a picky lady when it comes to my porn.

But you want to know the most super random thing that arouses me? Smelling my fingers after inserting them into my belly button. Gross, I know, and I swear I don't do it intentionally. It's just that the smell reminds me somehow of the smell of a female vulva. I am weird, I know.
When speaking of breasts, I tend to consider shape more important than size. They look quite nice when they are firm and healthy, but when they are sad and puffy I simply can't find them attractive. I do agree that "static and ball-shaped" breasts-which I assume are how one would describe those filled with silicone-are very unpleasant. As for vaginas, I do like a bit of hair. It looks so very strange bare. A nice bum is necessary as well. A flat backside is no fun to look at.
Really, so long as everything is in proportion and well-maintained I am a happy camper.
To clarify:
My asexuality does not exclude me from being aesthetically attracted to certain things and I am, in no way, embarrassed to say what I find appealing in other women. I felt I should write this disclaimer so as not to contradict my earlier comment.
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Old Oct 01, 2015, 09:17 AM
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When speaking of breasts, I tend to consider shape more important than size. They look quite nice when they are firm and healthy, but when they are sad and puffy I simply can't find them attractive. I do agree that "static and ball-shaped" breasts-which I assume are how one would describe those filled with silicone-are very unpleasant. As for vaginas, I do like a bit of hair. It looks so very strange bare. A nice bum is necessary as well. A flat backside is no fun to look at.
Really, so long as everything is in proportion and well-maintained I am a happy camper.
To clarify:
My asexuality does not exclude me from being aesthetically attracted to certain things and I am, in no way, embarrassed to say what I find appealing in other women. I felt I should write this disclaimer so as not to contradict my earlier comment.
Yes. I was referring to obviously fake breasts. As long as they are natural and move with fluidity, I love them.
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Old Oct 01, 2015, 11:23 AM
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This may be the sleep deprivation speaking, but I find that I like watching oral sex in porn. I also like receiving it and giving it in person. Just drives me crazy when a guy goes down on me.

When in porn it can be either male on female, or female on female. Also the woman or women have to have natural semi large breasts. I don't like super flat chested women, nor women whose breasts are static and ball shaped. I like them nice and jiggly. Oh and I prefer completely shaved pubic areas on both men and women. Just looks hot to me. I even go Brazilian myself.

I am a picky lady when it comes to my porn.

But you want to know the most super random thing that arouses me? Smelling my fingers after inserting them into my belly button. Gross, I know, and I swear I don't do it intentionally. It's just that the smell reminds me somehow of the smell of a female vulva. I am weird, I know.
Artchick, you are awesome and I just lost all train of thought after reading this; thank you, thank you very much. I even think I am blushing just a tad and I have a mind that is almost constantly in the gutter.
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Old Oct 02, 2015, 08:10 AM
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Wow! Turn ons....sex talk or sexting w/my lover.
Blindfolds, ball gags, soft & heavy bondage, eye contact, the smell of a man sweating, high heels, stockings, kissing the back of my neck, whispering in my ear what's going to happen to me.
Hazelnut coffee & a smoke
A beautifully shaped woman, a handsome man that carry themselves with the aire of knowing their confident sexual beings. (Sigh)
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