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Old Oct 16, 2015, 08:46 AM
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My wife refuses to wear lingerie for me although she has the body to do so. Anyone else have this problem and know whats up with that?
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Old Oct 18, 2015, 10:03 AM
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Would you kindly elaborate on this? From what you've written it would be easy to assume that you're trying to control what your wife wears. It should be, after all, your wife's choice as to what she wears.
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Old Oct 19, 2015, 09:28 AM
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I like to wear lingerie that makes ME feel good about myself & makes ME feel sexy. If my SO get to see it, he's lucky.
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Old Oct 19, 2015, 01:21 PM
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My wife refuses to wear lingerie for me although she has the body to do so. Anyone else have this problem and know whats up with that?
going on the assuption that you are not trying any role playing games and not trying to control what your wife is wearing...

wearing lingerie isnt always about looks for women. i rarely wear lingerie because the fabrics, and styles are not very comfortable for me... the lace scratches\itches, the arm pits are usually too tight, the strings cut into my skin when trying to be intimate... gosh there are so many things I find hateful about wearing lingerie....

just because your wife wont wear lingerie doesnt mean she doesnt love you and doesnt want to be intimate with you. sometimes what women find sexy is a partner accepting them as they are, seeing beyond the dress up and make up that is only skin deep. you love your wife for those things that made you love her before you became married....

so she wont wear those lingerie you want her too. there are other ways to spice up your intimacy...my wife and I love body art (paints, removable tatoos, pasties, experimenting with food products, toys, gosh theres a whole industry out there for enhancing ones intimacy.

maybe instead of your wife wearing lingerie you wear the lingerie (if you are male they do make male lingerie too that can be quite sexy on a man...)

my point while your wife has decided not to wear lingerie its not the end of the world and can be worked around to where you both can still have a fun and satisfying time together, just by looking beyond the beauty and what she wont do, to who she really is and what she will do with you. thats love,
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Old Oct 19, 2015, 03:34 PM
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My wife refuses to wear lingerie for me although she has the body to do so. Anyone else have this problem and know whats up with that?
Why does she refuse?
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Old Oct 20, 2015, 05:50 PM
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My wife refuses to wear lingerie for me although she has the body to do so. Anyone else have this problem and know whats up with that?
Jay, maybe try looking sexy for her and get her something sexy to put on while you are looking sexy and see what happens. Also maybe she wants to be viewed differently and not like a pin-up.
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