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Jun 11, 2007 at 08:23 PM
#21
 only when in love lol
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Jun 11, 2007 at 08:47 PM
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This has been great seeing everyone's answers! My original is that I don't like to give but if they like I surely like to receive! Then I see many people who are the exact opposite!!
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Jun 12, 2007 at 07:38 AM
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I AM A WOMAN AND YES I LIKE ORAL SEX WOOHOO I'M NOT SCARED TO ADMIT IT AND NO I'M NOT A SLUT OR A SLAG OR WHATEVER ELSE WOMEN WHO LOVE SEX GET LABELLED. YOU LIVE LIFE ONCE GET OVER IT I AM SO SICK OF LABELS.
SORRY I AM ANGRY TODAY AND I DONT KNOW WHY. NEW MEDS? WHO KNOWS. HERE WE GO AGAIN. BTW THIS IS AIMED AT NO ONE IN PARTICULAR IN CASE ANYONE THINKS IT IS. JINNYANN/KERRY/MADWOMAN/LOSER/WHATEVER LABEL I AM TODAY |
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Jun 12, 2007 at 09:44 AM
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Kerry how do you really feel about it. Dont be shy....haha
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Jun 12, 2007 at 11:04 AM
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Well,
Since Joe has to be the pioneer and break the ice for the mean Proud of ya Bro I like doing to a woman and like having it done to me ... the longer the better ... slower the better kinda of a teasing thing ..... Well that is as personal you will get from me --- woo hoo :::: blushing :::: Tymber |
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Jun 12, 2007 at 01:44 PM
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I like giving it and getting it.
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Jun 12, 2007 at 02:08 PM
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I've always enjoyed giving... but only with a guy I'm in a relationship with. I think I enjoy the power. I didn't enjoy receiving until recently. I guess I just needed to find a man who does it the way I like it.
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Jun 12, 2007 at 02:52 PM
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Far out, not too many of us guys here. You'd think we'd see a topic that said "Oral Sex" and we'd come running.
I have to say that I thoroughly enjoy performing oral sex. To me, the orgasm itself is the biggest turn on. I guess it's a self-confidence boost to know that you can get that reaction. Knowing that I've left them satisfied is very important to me. I guess one of the reasons behind that is because I can get a bit self-conscious when I'm having it done to me. I worry that they might be disgusted by it, sometimes despite their assurances that they wouldn't be doing it if they didn't want to. So, if I've satisfied her, the "guilt" over her satisfying me is substantially less, basically nonexistent. It is a major turn-on, and more enjoyable when you know she is enjoying giving it. When both of us are enjoying giving oral sex to each other, it makes the sex so much more enjoyable. When you know that she isn't thinking "Okay, you do me, then I do you, alright? Then we can get back to our normal lives", you feel less inhibited and can just let yourself REALLY go. If she's doing it out of some feeling of obligation, I will still find it enjoyable but not as enjoyable as it could be. What about you guys? Does it matter to you whether they enjoy giving it? Or does it not make a difference? Geez, that post took a while. I definitely need to have a smoke now. __________________ Quotes by Jack Handy: -"If any man says he hates war more than I do, he better have a knife, that's all I have to say." -"If you think a weakness can be turned into a strength, I hate to tell you this, but that's another weakness." The Quirkster-- Part-Time Shepherd, Full-Time HERO |
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Jun 12, 2007 at 05:11 PM
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great answer, petulantwolf!!!!!!!!!!
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Jun 12, 2007 at 05:13 PM
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obligation doesn't work very well for me either, Quirkster.......mutual satisfaction is a huge turn-on.....
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Jun 12, 2007 at 08:09 PM
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Quirkster -
You're right I did think with the title the guys would come running Didn't get Doc John's opinion on this one though LOL!!!Thanks for your honesty - it's a question I always wanted to ask. Now to throw a twist in - if your partner didn't like giving would that cause an issue with your sex life? Would you then seek someone else? Would you end a relationship over it? Gee, guess I had a few questions Tranquility __________________
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Jun 12, 2007 at 10:24 PM
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I don't think that would be enough to let go of a good relationship myself.
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Jun 12, 2007 at 10:46 PM
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I think it's important.. I don't know about if it would end a relationship, though. If it was a situation where he expected me to do it but refused to return, I would probably end it because he would probably be selfish in general.
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Jun 12, 2007 at 11:18 PM
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Been tryin and tryin to think of something to say here lol.. But the only thing I can come up with is.....
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Jun 12, 2007 at 11:53 PM
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Jun 13, 2007 at 12:01 AM
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beth lol
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Jun 13, 2007 at 12:35 AM
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I am great with giving and recieving it.
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Jun 13, 2007 at 07:06 AM
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quirkster get yourself over to the uk rofl lmao.
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Jun 13, 2007 at 08:23 AM
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if my partner didnt wanna give it then thats great!
im not a fan of recieving so its all about the giving and man he loves it... it doesnt cause a big fuss at all cos there is loads and loads of things he does for me.. our relationship is built on alot bigger things than sex bethy ur a crack up... love ya |
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Jun 13, 2007 at 09:05 AM
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Sweetsunshine..............channeling Tim McGraw, huh?
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