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Old Oct 31, 2015, 01:33 PM
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I had sex very rarely because of pain but I never bleed but last time I did it I saw bright red blood in my panties. Now Im wondering can it be that I lost my virginity physically only last time I had sex?
Have you ever bleed after sex?
Maybe it was too traumatic? I dont know.
Sometimes I think that maybe I had pain because I was virgin all that time and that thing which breaks after first sexual experience (sorry I dont know that word in english) wasnt broken yet so I had horrible pain. Is it possible? My first sex was the same like my 15th sex-painful without any good feelings.

Sorry its really hard to explain these things in english. I hope you understood what I mean.
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Old Oct 31, 2015, 08:29 PM
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The bleeding you are having is known as Virgin's Blood and happens when the hymen is torn. It should last a few days and stop.
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Old Oct 31, 2015, 09:16 PM
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If its after having sex several times you should see a gynecologist. Sometimes the hymen needs to be removed if it is abnormal.

Either way, if you are new to sex, it's important to see a gyn.
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Old Nov 01, 2015, 08:17 PM
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No I never bled during sex. I suggest you see a doctor about it.

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Old Nov 02, 2015, 12:59 AM
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lunitic soul there are many different reasons why a person may bleed after having sex... most times its because of normal things like dryness (a body naturally goes through many different things during intimacy and one of those things is how much fluid is there at different times through out the moment. some people need a little extra help in this area) age is also a normal factor in this kind of thing, as is things like medications, stress, nervousness, foreplay, past or present drug usage...gosh there are so many different things that can cause this kind of problem...

the best thing to do in this kind of situation is to contact a medical doctor or ob\gyn doctor who can tell you exactly why this is happening to you and how to make it so that it doesnt happen again.
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Old Nov 02, 2015, 02:43 AM
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I bled after a few times. And it only lasted a few hours.
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Old Nov 02, 2015, 01:46 PM
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Thank you all
Yes meant hymen, is it possible that it breaks after few times?
My doc told me that that hymen disturbs me to enjoy sex and its possible to get surgery and cut it. I was suprised its still there.
Now after bleeding I hope its torn and that it was the reason why I was bleeding. Blood was bright red and it was for only few hours. If it was serious bleeding I would run to my doc.
When I had sex for the first time I didnt bleed at all.
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Old Nov 02, 2015, 06:35 PM
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Thank you all
Yes meant hymen, is it possible that it breaks after few times?
My doc told me that that hymen disturbs me to enjoy sex and its possible to get surgery and cut it. I was suprised its still there.
Now after bleeding I hope its torn and that it was the reason why I was bleeding. Blood was bright red and it was for only few hours. If it was serious bleeding I would run to my doc.
When I had sex for the first time I didnt bleed at all.
usually it is either gone naturally or tears the first time but there is a medical condition where it neither erodes naturally nor breaks naturally.

maybe this article will help explain things....

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...-misunderstood

your doctor should have told you if you have this medical condition when he said your hymen is preventing you from enjoying sex. my suggestion is contact your doctor, he will explain what type body you have and what needs to be done for it so that you will no longer have problems having sex.
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Old Nov 10, 2015, 11:52 AM
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I gave birth so my hymen is completely torn and gone. I usually bleed with bigger men when it's too fast and rough reaching the cervix*. it stays in pain until the next day with bright red for a little but im guessing from the cervix* sorry*, and then pink spotting after. Then it's over

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