Questions for Mellors

Its personal choice, if women with big breasts, and even those who don’t have big breasts for that matter, more than a handful is a waste in my opinion, want to walk down the street, or even jog for that matter, with there breasts bouncing like 2 puppies in a sack, who am I to say no that’s wrong, its not me who is going to suffer the chaffing, sweating or bad back threw such activities.

I would prefer that they at least tried commando for a week first before settling back into the old routine of big knickers, because come on girls, we are not all daft enough to think that you wear your best knickers every day, think bridget jones and the control knickers incident at the airport, how so true that scene is.

Has for G strings and thongs, well the whale tail look as never appealed to me, the idea of walking around with either a piece of dental floss holding you together, or a piece of marine grade rope stuck up the crack of your *** is not very appealing to me.

So I guess what I am saying is given the choice it would be knickers

Question for you zen

What do you think of men that grow there beards, and I don’t mean 2 week old stubble, think zztop proportions, that either are bald, or are going bald? Would you date someone like that? And why / why not?

I would probably not date a man that looked like a zztop band member.

Mellors,

Do you ever "ppl watch" and find somethings ppl do pecuilar (spelling?)? Provide an examples for "ppl watching" observations in: grocery store, coffee shop/cafe, at the movies/theatre, men buying tampons or maxi pads for their wife/gf, and women that wear really HIGH heal shoes ( 4 inches or more).

Thanks

I ppl watch all the time, it is a defence thing, in the grocery store I go to they all speak polish, I do not give a %#@&#!, I also do not have a choice.

I don’t remember the last time I took myself out for coffee to people watch, justifying paying £2.50 for a cup of coffee? Is depression worth that much? Or is it to much recognition? I download all my vids via the web, no friends needed, cheap night in,

If a man cannot walk into a shop and ask for sanitary products for his girlfriend then I say shame on you, why the embarrasment? What is with that?

Has for high shoes if you can walk in them, follow me...............................

C'mon....vogue....let your body groove to the music hay hay hay!!

Oops sorry....I've wanted to do that ever since I saw your siggy.

K, sorry off topic.

it just seemed appropriate for this forum rayn, enjoy

Mellors

Do you think blondes have more fun?

Do shake your head when you see young children using mobile phones of their own (do you remember the day when you had to use a pay phone when you were a young child?) ?

Share your thoughts on the Concert for Diana?

If you could eat dinner at your fave expensive restaurant with 3 famous ppl alive or dead where would it be and with whom?

What do you think of women that can't leave the house without wearing make up?

I am to drunk to post a reply at this present moment, if I did post something, I would probably regret it, so I am saving myself the hassle and will post tomorrow whilst I have a hangover. I wont be in such a good mood has I am in tonight though and will probably be a total “illegitimate child” in my responses to the various questions until I can reach the required level of non sobriety to which I have become accustomed, then and only then will you get any sense out of me…..night all

<font color="#000088"> Question for you zen

What do you think of men that grow there beards, and I don’t mean 2 week old stubble, think zztop proportions, that either are bald, or are going bald? Would you date someone like that? And why / why not? </font>

I know this question was for Zen, but it intrigued me, so I'm weighing in. I have a thing for men with receding hairlines and beards. I've never gone for someone with a ZZ Top proportion beard (a tad too scary for me), but I find a receding hairline and a full beard delightfully manly.

I agree with you on the thong thing, by the way. I could never walk around with butt floss. Ugh.

I Thought with a bit of sleep I would change my mind on what I was going to post last night, I was wrong,

Zen / everybody else, I don’t know whether you will understand this or not, first let me say thanks for starting this thread, EJ started one also in social I think a long time ago, and the site before this, it was exactly the same, different names, same concept, what non of you have seemed to grasp is everyday I wake up to sometimes funny remarks made by me, sometimes not so funny remarks, but always the same remarks made by me, sometimes they are worded differently, but effectively it’s the same crap every day is what I am saying, no-one is asking proper questions,

In this forum I would expect at least a decent question, instead it is all drivel, like your to embarrassed to ask in fear of getting a proper response, I don’t want to wake up every day and see the same old crap on my screen, that’s doing me no favours at all, so please only serious questions only.

Mellors

Just one more silly question....

What is the purpose of glow in the dark condoms?

" throws hands in air, above head level, and walks off discusted"

Hmmm....I don't know what to do with this thread.

It was never specified that this thread was to be serious or silly.....just questions. My first thought was to edit right away, however I suppose it might be necessary for members to express views regarding threads.

I guess since the thread is titled "Questions for Mellors" then we need to adhere to what Mellors is comfortable with.

So lets keep the questions serious....not sure what the definition of serious is. I'll leave the thread as is, and if there is further frustration, lets keep it to PM.

Thanks,
Rayna

Mellors,

If this thread angers you by all means ask for this thread to be deleted.

Zen

Zen this is not directed at you personally, so please don’t take it that way, but knowing me for so long you would expect this kind of response from me,

(end stage 1, apologist)

I would like to try and explain me current state of mind at this time, and what I am trying to avoid waking up to every day…………

How would you feel if, everyday when I log on here, and I look at what I posted the day before, to see if I have progressed in any way, shape or form, or not, I thank the DID for that, to find that No,

( enter stage 2, depression,),

I have not progressed, and that you are still exactly where you were the day before, and the day before that, ect, which causes me to take yet another step back from myself with the thinking that I may not be able to cope, yet one of my alters can,

( stage 3, anxiety),

maybe he should be the one in control?, not me?, how is that helping me?. Please do tell…………………

(stage 4, denial)

no one is asking proper questions of anybody lately, which you need to do to make yourself think, when you think, you heal, well I do anyway,

(stage 5, regret)

Those of you that remember me in the chat room days, I was able to “multitask” for a better word, I could quite easily have multiple conversations, both funny and serious running concurrently for hours, I answered questions asked about myself, and asked questions of them, i felt like that was helping, it was working, what I am saying is what happened to those days?

(Stage 6, pragmatic) ( http://www.thefreedictionary.com/pragmatic)

Today has I see it…………………..

Its the same questions, regurgitated, reworded, call them whatever you want, they all amount essentially to the same thing, same old crap everyday, when a serious question is posted by anybody nowadays on this site, I would say 8 out of 10 replies, if they even get that many replies, are hugs, no advice, no sharing, no nothing, nothing but distraction techniques to avoid answering a question that could help somebody, that’s just the way I see it, censor me, edit me, bar me, whatever

(Stage 7, hope)

for once I want to wake up in the morning, ok afternoon, and read something that I know I had to think seriously about, before answering, because then, even if I don’t remember the day, I know I can put it on the good days side of the equasion. (sp). And not in the lost forever, or regretful file……….

(Stage 8, acceptance)

Not quite there yet………………………..

rayne i dont want the thread to be deleted, not by any stretch of the imagination, i need the thread to remain so i can look back at my moods swings, feel free to lock it, but please dont delete it.

I don't see anything against guidelines, so unless you ask me to, it shall remain.

I do want to say though, that there are plenty of serious threads on the board.....but this hasn't been one of them. I think the intent of this thread was to get a man's perspective on questions we women truly wonder about.....and not just any man's opinion, but YOUR opinion.....that means that the women on here respect your opinion, or they wouldn't be asking these questions. It may seem silly to you, but I know I have often wondered how men feel about the same questions posed here.....so while you might think they're silly questions, the women are asking them for a reason, and if it wasn't going to help, the questions wouldn't be asked.

Just some food for thought on the matter. I hope it helps to be able to look back on your responses! I periodically look back at all my posts over the last 2 years, and its pretty interesting.

sending you hugs ((((((((((((( mellors ))))))))))) ...some of us need hugs.

no way i would look back at my posts...hah

I know that I've always appreciated your perspectives on things mellors... just thought I'd say that, even if I have no questions to ask you at the moment.

Understood Mellors

How are you snakes doing?