"Coming out" contradictions??

Hi hon, I know that this time of your young life can be so confusing when it comes to sex and relationships. You are at an age where one begins to discover themselves, their likes and dislikes, preference, and also identity. There is no need to rush things because you have a long time to discover who you are, but you aren't wrong in how you feel.

It's real easy to get confused feelings about intimacy, like, and even love now since hormones have begun to start flowing. Even at a later age it can still be confusing. One will need to learn how to seperate sex from everything else from here on.

One thing that I can tell you sweety is that sex can ruin a relationship if not make it better. It can take away that special feeling that you have for someone, or magnify it: things won't ever be the same afterwards.

We can build up intense sexual feelings for someone to the point of fantasy, only to then discover afterwards that it wasn't all that, and then on to feeling foolish that our body tricked us into doing something that we'd never do. Sex is a powerful feeling that can change ones life, so please take care.

I wish you many years of safe exploration and discovery to finding out who you really are and to be happy.