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May 09, 2016, 09:56 AM
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Ok so the story is as follows : I have had multiple unwanted sexual fantasies about having my wife sleep with men, random men, we have spoken about it and she doesn't want to do it and I can't stop myself from thinking about it. We have had 4 threesomes before 3 guys and a girl but now I seem to want it again. I hate the fact that I forced her to do this and all the times we did it, it was because I guilted her into doing it. She loves me so much that she agreed to do it out of pure guilt and fear of me leaving her if she didn't do it. But she's not wanting to do it anymore and it even hurts me remembering all the times I made her do it and I wish I never did it in the first place. I want stop thinking about this all the time, I need to get rid of this and I need help! Please!
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May 09, 2016, 01:51 PM
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Hello gabearroyo1114: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral... from the Skeezyks!
 I hope you find whatever time you spend here to be of benefit.  Well... I must say... you have one AMAZING wife! What she has sacrificed for you is beyond my comprehension. It's good you now recognize your problem & are beginning to reach out for help. From my perspective, I believe your fantasies are something that require professional mental health attention. I would encourage you to seek the services of a therapist who has expertise in working with people who struggle with these kinds of problems. Perhaps there may be other members, here on PC, who have had similar struggles & who will be able to offer other suggestions. However, from my perspective, these kinds of obsessions do not dissipate easily. Resolving them is a long-term on-going process. I wish both you & your wife well... 
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May 09, 2016, 03:00 PM
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May 09, 2016, 06:50 PM
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Wow that is one pleasing wife! Her love and willingness to make you happy is definitely good but why would you want to put her in a situation where she's uncomfortable? I wouldn't push her anymore and if this is becoming an obsession for you then I'd consider getting therapy. If it's what your wife wants then why not but don't force it or guilt trip her please.
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May 09, 2016, 09:30 PM
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This is disgusting behavior. I couldn't imagine forcing someone to perform sexual acts when they don't want to...
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May 12, 2016, 05:39 PM
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Perhaps you and your wife could find a way of letting you indulge in your fantasy without actually involving another person.
How about roleplay and a blindfold and of course with your wife's willing consent. If you are blindfolded she could roleplay that she is as many different people as you desire and with the addition of sex toys such as the type that is an imitation of a woman's intimate sex organs you could have your three some without the need for a 3rd person 
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