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Jul 26, 2007 at 10:04 PM
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what are the collar rules for a submissive?
what does a submissive do? __________________ “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves” Viktor Frankl
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Jul 26, 2007 at 10:50 PM
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have you looked it up online by chance?
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Jul 27, 2007 at 12:36 AM
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i have tried but online isnt much help
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Jul 27, 2007 at 01:18 AM
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I really hate to ask this but your profile says you are a student? your tag thing says a girl? I am just trying to figure out how old you are here so I can answer more appropriately.
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Jul 27, 2007 at 07:13 PM
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If your email address is correct, you attend a school for 7-12 years olds? Is that correct?
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Jul 28, 2007 at 02:41 AM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
milly said: what are the collar rules for a submissive? what does a submissive do? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> May I ask? - Why are you asking about this paticular sex act? |
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Jul 28, 2007 at 11:39 AM
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this is one reason I don't feel comfortable with children having access to this forum. sounds very young and asking such a shocking type question. it scares me frankly that someone young would want to know about being a submissive. wow that could really mess up a child! mind control?
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Jul 28, 2007 at 01:04 PM
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Yes, it hard to answer such a question for someone that we think (believe) to be a young teen..... but on the other hand, I also believe if they are asking they need an answer based on age appropriate understanding.
Based on my past..... if I was to have asked that question, at such a young age, it would have been more out of wanting to know what it was for it was being done to me, sexual abuse. I would feel more comfortable answering this question if I knew a little more about the situation and the person asking it. |
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Jul 28, 2007 at 02:12 PM
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I agree.
We have to consider here that even if this is member of a younger age, they're asking the question for a reason and *appropriate* responses might me the world and even health.  Milly, I'd like to be able to respond as I can with a bit more information. What is your age? Do you feel you're in a difficult position? If you don't feel comfortable to answer here, you can always private message me by clicking on my name and selecting that option. KD __________________ 
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Jul 28, 2007 at 09:32 PM
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I don't mind answering I am just concerned really. I think it is unusual for a child to be asking this type question. guess I am so afraid of some predator preying on our youth. it scares the pants off me. my husband works in a jail and I tell you it is full of them.
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Jul 30, 2007 at 08:00 PM
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I am turning 17 and am not in a difficult position, i no longer attend school and it is in my nature to ask questions more appropriate for adults but having recently gaining a mistress i need more info... and yes i am bisexual
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Jul 30, 2007 at 11:40 PM
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From My POV.......
I feel as though BDSM is a part of sex that should not exists for it demeans and takes away from one of the partners as both a person and a lover. Where is the LoVe in that? |
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Jul 30, 2007 at 11:52 PM
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I agree on that! I would never give power like that to another person! I think it would destroy a persons self esteem. there is plenty on the internet about it. I found all kinds of info when I typed in bmsd or whatever it was
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Jul 31, 2007 at 07:12 AM
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I don't know you or your history. But if you have a history including being sexually abused and/or if you self-injure, please reconsider being involved in a BDSM relationship. It can be very dangerous emotionally, and is (for some people) a way to recreate, re-exerience, and re-traumatize themselves. It can be (for some people) a form of self-injury.
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Jul 31, 2007 at 07:29 PM
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well look at that as soon as someone mentions college i get chucked into one...
giving someone that power for me is a privlege... being on my knees for someone makes me happy __________________ “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves” Viktor Frankl
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Jul 31, 2007 at 08:57 PM
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does it really make you happy or are you doing it because you want this person to love you? just asking because I know I did things saying I liked it just to please a lover. not a good feeling once I realized it is not what made me happy.
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Jul 31, 2007 at 09:01 PM
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I am so there with you, Bebop!
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Jul 31, 2007 at 11:38 PM
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no it actually makes me happy and for some reason i submit myself to just about everyone here
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Aug 01, 2007 at 10:34 AM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
milly said: giving someone that power for me is a privlege... being on my knees for someone makes me happy </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Who's LOVE & APPROVAL are YOU really seeking when you are down on your kness...... ? |
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