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Old Oct 14, 2016, 06:23 AM
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Hello all.

Unfortunately this is not a post regarding movie with Kate Bosworth, it is regarding what happens while im asleep.

Little pre-story: Ive been with my BF for almost 3 yrs now, and he was always more than great and loving. Perfect mach id say. We started living together about a year ago, as it seemed like a good move and also he got a job where he has to travel a lot and this way we get to be closer when he is off the trip. Long story short - i had a condition, and got stuck with medicines that make me sleep a lot, and very hard, every night and sometimes i have to even lay down during the day. He was more then helpful and full of understanding whole time, and i dont know what would i do without him at those moments.

Few weeks ago, i noticed i had semen between my legs when i woke up. I thought it was me, but after it happened a few more times and as the last time my vagina was a bit sore, i couldnt help but thinking.. he is easing himself while im asleep. Asleep almost like unconscious.

Does anyone have any advice or similar situation? Im not sure how i feel about the matter or him.

Sorry for my english, it is not my native language.
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Old Oct 15, 2016, 01:30 PM
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Hello SleepyNook: I cannot comment with regard to your concern. However I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. There are many knowledgeable & caring members here. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting!
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Old Oct 15, 2016, 05:44 PM
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Hello SleepyNook: I cannot comment with regard to your concern. However I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. There are many knowledgeable & caring members here. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting!
Thank you Skeezyks! I hope i will get some advice and maybe give some where I can.. Thank you for this warm welcome!
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Old Oct 15, 2016, 06:32 PM
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Have you spoken to him about this????
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Old Oct 15, 2016, 06:50 PM
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This does not sound good to me at all, I would definitely talk to him about it ASAP.
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 01:50 AM
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Nope, I didnt yet... I tried to put a joke on it, but he didnt catch.. I am not sure how to react and how to feel about it.. Because its like there is another guy in him
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Old Oct 17, 2016, 01:28 PM
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Update- It happened again, last night. I m really not sure how to act around the house.
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Old Oct 18, 2016, 02:23 AM
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Hey @SleepyNookSit,

I really think you should sit down both and have a talk.
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Old Oct 18, 2016, 02:48 AM
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Question- If he says "yes" what is your reaction?

It could be his fetish or it could be like being molested.
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Old Oct 18, 2016, 10:28 AM
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Question- If he says "yes" what is your reaction?

It could be his fetish or it could be like being molested.
"Why" would be my obvious question. Why is it happening?
Could you, @SleepyNook, have some kind of somnambulistic behavior that gives him wrong signals?

Or is He enjoying id deliberately?

In your position I would want to know exactly what is happening and understand how I feel about it.
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Old Oct 21, 2016, 01:36 AM
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"Why" would be my obvious question. Why is it happening?
Could you, @SleepyNook, have some kind of somnambulistic behavior that gives him wrong signals?

Or is He enjoying id deliberately?

In your position I would want to know exactly what is happening and understand how I feel about it.
The WRONG signals? She was asleep.
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Old Oct 21, 2016, 06:26 AM
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"Why" would be my obvious question. Why is it happening?
Could you, @SleepyNook, have some kind of somnambulistic behavior that gives him wrong signals?

Or is He enjoying id deliberately?

In your position I would want to know exactly what is happening and understand how I feel about it.
Well, i do get arroused in my dreams, i guess thats normal.. and i dunno what im doin while asleep..

I believe he does, coz it hapen a dozen times already.. as far as i know.
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Old Oct 21, 2016, 06:27 AM
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Im still not sure how I feel.. and im not sure how do u confront someone with smthng like this?..
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Old Oct 22, 2016, 06:19 AM
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The WRONG signals? She was asleep.
We're not mechanically "Powered Off" when we sleep.
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Old Oct 22, 2016, 03:51 PM
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It might depend on your medication.

I take Ambien for sleep. It has something of an amnesiac effect.

Could it be that your meds are doing the same thing?
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Old Oct 23, 2016, 05:25 AM
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I would suggest a blunt talk. Tell him what you have found and that you are uncomfortable. Whether you are reacting to him in sleep or not there needs to be a boundary made.

Perhaps you both can come up with a code word or a safe word. That way he knows when you are awake and willing and or asleep and reacting (if that is the case)
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