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Hello all.
Unfortunately this is not a post regarding movie with Kate Bosworth, it is regarding what happens while im asleep. Little pre-story: Ive been with my BF for almost 3 yrs now, and he was always more than great and loving. Perfect mach id say. We started living together about a year ago, as it seemed like a good move and also he got a job where he has to travel a lot and this way we get to be closer when he is off the trip. Long story short - i had a condition, and got stuck with medicines that make me sleep a lot, and very hard, every night and sometimes i have to even lay down during the day. He was more then helpful and full of understanding whole time, and i dont know what would i do without him at those moments. Few weeks ago, i noticed i had semen between my legs when i woke up. I thought it was me, but after it happened a few more times and as the last time my vagina was a bit sore, i couldnt help but thinking.. he is easing himself while im asleep. Asleep almost like unconscious. Does anyone have any advice or similar situation? Im not sure how i feel about the matter or him. Sorry for my english, it is not my native language. |
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Hello SleepyNook: I cannot comment with regard to your concern.
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Have you spoken to him about this????
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This does not sound good to me at all, I would definitely talk to him about it ASAP.
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Nope, I didnt yet... I tried to put a joke on it, but he didnt catch.. I am not sure how to react and how to feel about it.. Because its like there is another guy in him
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Update- It happened again, last night. I m really not sure how to act around the house.
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Hey @SleepyNookSit,
I really think you should sit down both and have a talk. |
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Question- If he says "yes" what is your reaction?
It could be his fetish or it could be like being molested. |
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Could you, @SleepyNook, have some kind of somnambulistic behavior that gives him wrong signals? Or is He enjoying id deliberately? In your position I would want to know exactly what is happening and understand how I feel about it. |
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I believe he does, coz it hapen a dozen times already.. as far as i know. |
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Im still not sure how I feel.. and im not sure how do u confront someone with smthng like this?..
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We're not mechanically "Powered Off" when we sleep.
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It might depend on your medication.
I take Ambien for sleep. It has something of an amnesiac effect. Could it be that your meds are doing the same thing? |
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I would suggest a blunt talk. Tell him what you have found and that you are uncomfortable. Whether you are reacting to him in sleep or not there needs to be a boundary made.
Perhaps you both can come up with a code word or a safe word. That way he knows when you are awake and willing and or asleep and reacting (if that is the case) |
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