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Jan 06, 2017 at 12:05 AM
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So, its been over a year since I've had any intimate relations with anyguy. I really want sex, thats not the issue. The issue is I'm not looking for meaningless sex. If I plan on having sex with you its a commitment. I dont want to have sex just to have sex. But its coming to the point where I say the hell with my values. The other reason is I have to trust the people I'm having sex with. I dont just want to be a person who gets down and dirty all willy nilly. I am a bottom and that means I'm the one getting plowed, so I think I have that right. How do people survive for so long without it. Please give me some advice.
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Jan 06, 2017 at 12:24 AM
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I don't know. I guess I masturbate. Not at all equal to the physical intimacy of sex, but it gives me a temporary reprieve and I can focus on other things for a while.
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Jan 07, 2017 at 09:47 AM
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Artchic528 is right. Masturbate. I haven't had sex in nearly 10 years, not by choice (I'm married) but bought some toys a few years ago to take the edge off. It can be fun and you can get creative to a point!
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Jan 08, 2017 at 06:33 PM
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I definitely know how you feel. I'm pushing almost 20yrs. My 'partner' is my right hand. And my porn collection is massive.
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Jan 09, 2017 at 12:30 AM
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Jan 10, 2017 at 12:45 AM
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