My problems with giving oral sex.

I have a small mouth, and for some reason, my jaw muscles are always very tight feeling when I try and open my mouth up wide. Even my dentist has to use a different and smaller spacing device when taking X-rays of my teeth because of this.

Anyways, whenever I gave oral in the past, I found it difficult because of my small mouth, and the fact that it would get tired, and I would start closing it a bit too much for it to be enjoyable to the guy. "Too much teeth", they said. I also found the taste a little unpleasant and I've never gotten the guy to the point of successfully cumming via this way, and having a guy cum in my mouth sort of scares me because I don't know what it tastes like at all and whether or not I'll like it.

Anyways, the reason I'm bringing this up is because I'm sort of seeing this guy right now and this may come up sometime in the future. I want to be prepared. How do I make sure it's an enjoyable experience for the both of us? I have some flavored lube, would that help?

On behalf of all the men around the world, I want to thank you for understanding the seriousness related to this topic and your efforts in finding a solution. Seriously, good for you but unfortunately I don't see flavored lube being the answer to your problems. I think you should consider dating guys who have smaller penises. If men fitting that description do not exist in your area, I would say you're next best option is to use more tongue. The only issue with this is that it may take more time to get to the center of the lollipop if you catch my drift, which I'm sure you do. But let's not forget, the act of giving oral sex is a selfless one, so what is good for your man, is good for you. I hope this helps. good luck!!

Flavored lube does help but it shouldn't be needed all that much unless the guy in question has bad hygiene (in which case get him to take a good long soapy bath before hand) or just doesn't have a palatable natural flavor.

I've got a normal sized mouth but I have had past lovers complain of too much teeth and depending on his sensitivity can be easy to get off (thirty seconds to a minute and no sore jaw) to very difficult (takes more than three minutes and you have to alternate between giving him a hand job and oral).

Depending on what he eats it can be slightly fruity to down right bitter.

However nothing matters more than opening up a dialog with this guy or others in the future about your inexperience and fears. If the guy is worth anything he will take it slow and allow you to get comfortable with the idea of oral and not get frustrated too much if it isn't what he expected it too be. Worse come to worse you don't have to do that one thing. There are so many other things you can do to please a guy.

I have a small mouth and very sharp teeth so you have my utmost sympathy. At the adult shops here they sell something called Head Candy. It's made out of the stuff gummy bears are made out of and you can push it down over your teeth. It's kinda strawberry flavored so it also helps with taste.

I have never tried it but a friend uses dental wax to put over her teeth.

I'll look at the Adam&Eve website (It's an adult store chain in the US) for something like "Head Candy". Thanks!

Put a wrapped Andes mint in your bra until it is warm. Put the candy on penis. It helps with the taste.

Aren't Andies Mints those chocolate covered mint things? Sounds messy. I bet he'd like that mess though.

Yes, they are the candy. It is going to be messy anyway so the chocolate makes a tasty mess.

Yes. A good mess.

I'll just need to wash the bra afterword, then.

Leave the chocolate in the foil while it is in your bra.

Okay.

Great topic Artchic528!! I certainly don't have a great answer for you, but just my opinion.
I think there's bj's that start things off, that move on to other things. These bj's are short in duration for you. I'd say if your jaw is getting sore then switch it up with your hand....& tongue....doing other things & be aware of how your partner is reacting to it.
If this bj is supposed to make him ejactulate....& your not sure of the taste then maybe keep a towel close by if you need it.
I had several bad experiences that have led to messy cleanups & my immense embarrassment. But I did learn for the next time. I learned to talk while I was...down there, so I'd know what my partner wanted.

With my SO I've never really been fond of the act myself & always feel obligated.
But with my partner the dynamic & feeling is totally different, in every way.
So take your time & see what ur partner likes, but also even more importantly, what you like & what you like to do & offer that feels good to you too. You should be enjoying the process just as much as your partner.
Have fun too!

I think guys like anything you do down there, as long as you don't use teeth. You don't have to just have it in your mouth. Think different angles, go all over, experiment and see how he reacts. You are in control (I love that!), it's a tease for him, don't rush.

There are instructional vids that can be viewed online. I'm not going to post urls for the sites, pm me if you wish links. Also, there are adult 'toys' that you could practice on. helping you to open your mouth wider. And, there are flavored lubes and condoms.

Get comfortable! If your not in a comfortable position you will find it difficult to relax your jaw.

The knack to avoiding to much taste when he cums is to keep him toward the back of your throat and don't pull back when he does(even though that's the instinctive thing to do),the less that gets over your tongue and around your mouth the less likely you are to taste something you don't like.
Also avoid breathing through your nose for several seconds after.
Breathing through your nose is about 40-60% of taste. Try it with other things you will see what I mean.

there is also flavoured condoms, and definitely alternate between hand and mouth to save your jaw.

Don't let this seem intimidating, there is always the option to spit, although do try and do that subtly into a hand towel or something.

But as previous posters have said, just have fun with it.

I've read that the stuff sticks to your throat and therefor is hard to swallow.

I also have the issue of him possibly being very well endowed. He said he was well gifted by Mother Nature. I'm going to need my lube for this one if it comes to it.

I'm not sure if it sticks in your throat. I do know that when I'm giving oral I produce a lot of saliva & phlem...which helps with lubrication & swallowing.

And do what's comfortable & leave room to explore. Your in control of how much you wanto do. The penis is not the only place...some men like their prostate or scrotum done as well. Might is well mention the back door too.
PS....most men think they're well endowed. Lol.

I think that is a normal giggle moment. I think all women have inadvertent tooth a dude lol. If you play it off act natural practice enjoying it the jaws will expand work the muscles in your mouth when you know ur guy might be in need beforehand. If he a jerk about it though, it would work my self esteem being on a site like this. I think you are doing the right thing by finding tips for improving.