Sexual Aversion!

Okay, Ive been reading up on what i have (see the post "you guys are my only hope, i fear". I think what Im dealing with is severe sexual aversion disorder. I have a girl i like romantically but it seemsl ike most times i just envision her vagina or whatever what i ahvent seen but I just freak out ive had sex with 2 girls before and I loved it considerably. So why am i having these images in my head as disgusting? girls bellies which i love are suddenly messing me up? has anyone overcome sexual aversion? im seeng a therapist but theres a girl I care about, i do masterbate around 4 times a day everyday so im sure that that has something to do with Low testesterone so would that solve it!? I need help!!!!!!

Hi again immscared,

Can the issue of sex and sexuality get anymore confusing? I believe that one can overcome sexual aversion with the help of a therapist, a sex therapist, or even perhaps on one's own.

I haven't an aversion to sex. I just lack any interest or enjoyment in it whatsoever. I have been this way for about 4 years now and have no idea as to why.

As for testosterone, I did have my levels checked and did learn that my levels were quite low. I am now on a bio-identical testosterone cream that is applied once daily. I also have low progesterone which is replaced with bio-identical progesterone cream.

I do know that my endocrine system is not "right". However, I have no idea if this causes my total disinterest and total lack of enjoyment. Never in my life did I think that I would have this issue as I used to enjoy a very healthy sex life and would daydream about sex and enjoyed the anticipation of fun times to be. Now, I feel like I am in total lack and somewhat of a freak of nature.

Obviously, I have total sexual disfunction. I am hoping that the testosterone cream will work but I have to admit that I often forget to apply it so I have a little bit of work to do in that area. Otherwise, I will never know if the testosterone will bring me back to life, so to speak. The endocrinologist told me that it takes as long as 6 months to know if the dose is working.

Here is to hoping that we both find our answers and peace with ourselves.

Peacemaker

I've read all your posts iimmscared and i don't see homosexuality. Most gay men are always gay, never having a desire for women. Some men "discover" that they are bi-sexual but do not lose their desire for women but realize they also desire other men. You have said that you have been with other women and enjoyed it.

From what you are saying this seems to have occurred with your current girlfriend. Until then you were strictly hetro. Perhaps there is something about her that has triggered some repressed memory or emotion in you that is trying to come to the fore. Such a sudden shift in how you perceive female anatomy does not equate to a change in sexual preference.

I would suggest talking to a therapist, one specializing in sex therapy.

Good luck, and don't let it bother you too much. Everyone has a little confussion about sex from time to time.

I appreciete it! I have to agree that it is ridicolously confusing, and I really hope the testesterone cream works for you! I think I'm gonna have to do that, everything fluctuates repeatedly and I am confused as tow hats going on, but its been a good week in terms of the mental stuff! I am currently seeing a therapist now but so far its not helping im not sure.

see this is going on now. I am basically having severe sexual aversion. I think ive worked though that Im not gay in that my whole life, no experimentation with men and i think the stuff is all in my head, and i think the porn has a lot to do with it distorting my perception on reality and stuff.

How do you get over sexual aversion? this is really tearing me up.

Thanks.

I think low test levels you would not be able to masturbate 4 times a day every day.