A frank oral sex question

I have always felt that if I was going to swallow, I had better have a huge 3 carat diamond on my finger that could make a blind person see!!!

All kidding aside though....this is defiitely an individual thing. It's all what YOU feel comfortable doing. As long as ya'll are safe and comfy, that's what is important!


sabby

this is not a sexual forum my friend...this is a support forum for emotional issues...it is only this thread that is of the sexual nature...maybe that is what everyone has forgotten...this is a support forum...and where is the support or even the emotional issue in whether someone spits, swallows, or whatever...wow do I ever sound like a prude...I dont really mean to sound this way but until i saw the words blowjob/head/oralsex I had no idea this thread was even here...maybe I am too old for this forum...maybe I should look elsewhere for support...

since when has swallowing been good for your complexion? maybe thats why i started getting acne lol

imo, the problem with most forums (and people in general) now is that everyone gets too up in arms about things. it seems to me that people look for reasons to get offended. and if a 13 year old is allowed on this website then thats not my problem, its the parents problem for allowing their kids to b exposed to such things. my sister monitors her daughters internet exposure and has been open in saying "i can look at your history, so be careful what you look at." plus i kind of feel that if you were offended by the title why would you open up the thread?

i think this is a lot of humour and people need to remember what happened to their sense of humour. just because youre older than the rest of us doesnt mean you cant find blow jobs funny. my mom is almost 60 and she makes sex jokes. i think that just because im open about my sexuality and comfortable with my body i should be able to talk about it. and i dont see why people should have to censor themselves because someone else isnt comfortable with their body and bodily fuctions. its all nature. everyone does it. to me that seems like getting offended talking about poop. and in case we have forgotten, everybody poops lol.

not trying to make anyone mad. just were all expressing our opinions so i thought i would too.

(i know its basically protein and could be a good supplement lol. they need to take some guys into a labratory and turn that stuff into a pill lol)

I don't think anyone said they were offended... It takes a lot to offend either bebop or me. I was just surprised to see it at PC in poll form, is all.

Nothing about consensual sex offends me.

hahhah - I just realized that every time I have looked down at this section of the PC forums between last night and today, I have seen Rayna's post in Women's titled "Getting a treat today" followed by "Oral sex/head/blowjob"

lol thats pretty good. too bad its not the women who are getting the blow jobs lol i wasnt saying that you guys were getting offended. for some reason i cant convey my message in a less than bitcy manner lol so it always comes out wrong. sorry if it came across that way.

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if a 13 year old is allowed on this website then thats not my problem

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thankyou salukigirl for making my point exactly...

so what's next fisting...spooning...maybe we should talk about eating feces and pissing on each other as a sexual turn on...

there will be no further replies to this post by me...thankyou

im not sure if that was sarcasm or not. you took my words out of context and made it look like im evil. the rest of it said that parents should monitor their kids internet usage more. Its just joking around. I don't see what the big deal is? If someone wants to talk about scat parties then I would just stay away from the thread.

I updated the subject-line to be a little more sensitive to the fact that this may not be a thread everyone wants to read/see when they come into the sexuality forum.

Just as a reminder to members, if you have a question or concern regarding a specific topic or post, please use the "notify moderator" option. Do not post your concerns in the thread, as that is considered "off topic." Thank you!

DocJohn

I do have to comment one more time here and apologize to salukigirl for that and she is right I should have quoted the whole line and not just that part...I wasn't being sarcastic salukigirl I was trying to point out that it should be our problem as to what a child reads here...it seems I am apologizing an awful lot these days...

its okay. i wasnt trying to seem like i was raging or anything lol no need to apologize. we all have our moments. (god knows i do lol)

sorry - not trying to be off topic.

OT I'll join you mystry... my apologies; I will just informed admin. in the future

HELPFUL TIP:

My doctor informed me that "Pine Apple Juice" will help sweeten the semen of a man - so if you are going to indulge in oral pleasure just have your man start drinking the juice and see if it help in a few weeks.

Doctor also said DIET has a lot to do with how your man will taste (bitter or yummy).

I don't offend easily but the kids do read this and we need to keep that in mind also.

if people don't want to read it don't keep coming back to it. real simple. you know it is here right?

I think the subject is a personal choice (to or not to). oral sex can be and should be a beautiful experience.

A FRANK oral sex question??!!! Sorry, the 9 y.o. in me just came out....LOL....LOL....LOL

Okie

You are too funny Okie!! LOL!!!!!!

Yea ,,, question and poll..

And I think Doc John said something about personal thoughts ,,,,, ((( I might have read that wrong )))

Everything has been discussed at this point in time as to this thread.

Mans Point of View : When timing is off,, She in her monthly time /// and guy in his >>>> Mood.

I go put something for dinner (( Start at least )) on the stove . Bring a hot wash clothe and again >>>

Tap lightly at some place she will know means /// use this now warm wash clothe and then say ..Give me a moment and I will finish dinner for us .

Goose her as she re-enters room and give a hug ..(( Go wash hands and finish dinner)) ,,,,, And say Can I get you anything else?

This is just a quick reply, not addressed to anyone. A question came up in General about avoiding triggering froums, so I'm going to copy and paste my reply to that thread here:

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I have forums that are triggers for me here too. So I use the favorites view. I don't know if you know how to use this so I'll explain just in case. For the forums you like and want to keep reading, lets use General for example. From the list of forums click on General. Scroll all the way down, and on the bottom left there's some small links. Click on the link that says Subscribe/Unsubscribe to forum. Now General is in your favorites view. Go through and do this for all the forums you want to view. Then at the top of of the forums I believe, it'll say "show favorite forums only". Click that and it'll only show the forums you've selected. It will remember that, and every time you log in, it only shows your favorites until you select the show all forums link.

I only view 21 of the forums. This keeps me from stumbling into a forum that triggers me.

Hope that helps.....

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When posts in this forum get a bit graphic, I throw out a reminder about our young viewers. If people are going to read here and are offended/embarassed easily, it needs to be addressed in PM as DocJohn stated. Changing an original poster's subject should be done by talking to the original poster first, or coming to mod/admin.

This forum makes many uncomfortable. Good self care is not to view it.

Thanks,
Rayna

wmd - that sounds absolutely impersonal. lol. goose her? what does that even mean? does she have to honk?

Hey Bebop:
Where have you been? These kids today could tell us things that would curl your hair!!! Don't worry about us embarrassing them...............worry that they already KNOW
it!!!!

Salukigirl,,,no no no >>>>> No honking involved > Guess that get the attention of another is a pet peeve thing <<< Sorry you might have focused on goose and not hug afterward and Noncondesending question May I get you anything else <<< as Far as May I do something for you please,,,,,But aaaaaaaa ,,, that's enough explanation ((( KNew better than to post here as I guy on this subject .

drummer I am not so old that I don't know what teens do these days. heck we did them wayyyyyyyyy back when lol. just some of the kids here are really young. I speak out of respect for the parents of the kids. I for one would not want my child reading adult forums.

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I speak out of respect for the parents of the kids.
I for one would not want my child reading adult forums.

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This is where we differently need more parental supervision at HOME....... I supervised my son's when they were online and they did not stumble upon adult talk that I would rather they did not read at such an yearly age.

But then again - I always answered my kids at any age when they asked about babies being born or any kind of sex talk... I just let the explanation be age appropriate.

i wanna first thank everyone that contributed to the poll
thanks for not making me feel like a freak
i also wanna thank admin and mods for helping out with those that struggled in some form with this post
i also wanna thank them for keeping in mind things i didnt obviously have on my mind when i posted such as trigger icons and a much more conservative subject line
so thank you all

I completely agree rhap. parents these days don't seem to care so much or don't realize the dangers of the internet. I talked to my kids about sex all the time when they were younger. they are now 30 and 34.