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Magnate
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Dec 11, 2007 at 10:38 PM
#81
ziggy - not trying to be mean but then why did you come back looking at it again if its triggering? thats why the subject line says a frank oral discussion, to let you know that there are no cover ups or sugar coating. im sorry you were triggered but this wasnt meant to do any of that and i think if you read it and were triggered you shouldnt have come back to the thread again.
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Dec 13, 2007 at 02:11 AM
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thanks salukigirl no this wasnt meant to trigger it is as the subject says
i appreciate the seemed enjoyment ppl have gotten from this thread.. |
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Feb 29, 2008 at 06:03 PM
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wow....for such a "touchy and frank" topic, everyone sure put their two cents worth into this...
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Poohbah
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Feb 29, 2008 at 06:29 PM
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Human nature Brian. It's why sensationalism works in media.
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Feb 29, 2008 at 06:54 PM
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Cyran0 said: Avoid the teeth and you're good. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> It was funny then but even funnier now -- I got braces when I was 29-30. My boyfriend of the time all but called the orthodontist to have a chat with him  The orthodontist was cool, he and I had fun conversations since he was usually talking to young teens. I loved the way he taled to the teens. He had one 14 year old high school boy who wouldn't wear his head gear often or long enough so told him he got one last chance and then the orthodontist was going to solder the head gear on. LOL. __________________ "Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius |
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Mar 01, 2008 at 03:01 PM
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Well, whatever people's opinions, this sure got a lot of responses! !
What I would be more interested in is what is the emotional relational feelings behind going down anyway, and more so swallowing the end result! I'm keeping my cards behind my back here, as my sexuality was mostly inhabited by my disorderedness from a v. early age, so I wouldnt dare share about it anywhere less than seriously healing context. Still, there were some intense times I had with my sexuality and my 'other'. I'm glad I didnt abstain totally. __________________ "Strong passions are the precious raw materials of sanctity" Fulton Sheen |
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Magnate
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Mar 01, 2008 at 11:55 PM
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yay! this thread got spoken in again! woohoo!!
yeah i had braces on my top, front 6 teeth for 2 months. I had a big ol' opie gap in my front 2 teeth and had been BEGGING for braces since I was 13 but my dentist kept saying "no, your wisdom teeth will fix them by the time youre 22" and finally i said "screw you!" and i went when i was 18 and got them. and when I was done getting them put on (ouch by the way) I came home and I was like "so.... are you ready for the consequences of this?" and he got this weird look on his face like "oh god im scared" lol. i don't think i did for that 2 months cause i was afraid to. i didn't want to be the reason we were unable to conceive later on in life haha. like an accidental lorana bobbitt hehe. okay i gotta stop now. |
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Wise Elder
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Mar 02, 2008 at 02:39 AM
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Talking about Oral Sex..... I thought I would add something I learned from the doctor.
With the Papillomavirus becoming wider spread the medical field has learned there might be a link between the virus and the increase numbers of oral cancer cases in men....... something to think about when you are having oral sex, for it is no longer the safe sex people go for when they did not want the ricks associated with intercourse. |
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Legendary
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Mar 02, 2008 at 10:07 AM
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wow rhap! talk about putting a halt to something most people really enjoy! waaaaa oh gosh! not funny but dang! a few years ago it was milk or eggs that gave you cancer! geesh!
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Mar 02, 2008 at 12:16 PM
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I think the answer to this question depends on the person. Past X's of mine I couldnt bare the taste (yuck) but others were different.
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Wise Elder
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Mar 02, 2008 at 12:53 PM
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bebop said: wow rhap! talk about putting a halt to something most people really enjoy! </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I know - I know...... now I fear my fun is over -  - lol - 
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Mar 02, 2008 at 06:53 PM
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Truth is, oral has never been "safe" despite a popular perception of it being so. Numerous stds can be transmitted through oral sex. This new development is just one more thing you can catch through oral.
Condoms or a faithful partner are the way to go. Cyran0 __________________ My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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Mar 03, 2008 at 02:12 AM
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Cyran0 said: Condoms or a faithful partner are the way to go. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I hear you there as I have been faithful to my husband for 25 years....... but please do keep in mind that the Papillomavirus does not care to much for condoms or faithful partner as it starts as a virus that effects many faithful partners.
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Mar 04, 2008 at 10:42 AM
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This is interesting to me, I asked a question and people started talking here again, but no body seemed interested in what I had asked. And that happens to me so much, it does hurt, but not here so much, as I'm not so seriously concerned about oral sex one way or the other. But I'd like to get help to understand............
was my question irrelevant ? or too obvious to answer, or .......... ?? just not interesting at all? I feel so isolated amongst humans so often, ........ I'd like to understand more. Am I just barking up a totally different tree than most others? How does this happen from your point of view? river __________________ "Strong passions are the precious raw materials of sanctity" Fulton Sheen |
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Poohbah
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Mar 04, 2008 at 12:37 PM
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It happens sometimes River, people read a string of three or four posts and repond to the part they're interested in (assuming someone else will tackle the other parts of the thread). I'm as guilty of this as anyone. Please don't take it personally.
To answer your question, there are endless reasons for why people do what they do sexually so in a way your question is too broad to answer. But some typical responses might be: enjoying the pleasure your partner takes in it, a feeling of power and control during the act, a feeling of submission during the act, enjoyment of the physical sensations of the act, a sense of obligation to their partner, in exchange for some sexual act they want in return, helps put one or both parties in the mood for vaginal sex, a belief that it's safer, living out a fantasy, etc. It's different for everyone. Cyran0 __________________ My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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Mar 05, 2008 at 06:17 PM
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Thanks for the answer Cyrano. So that would then point up my sensitivity to rejection.
I found your answer more content filled and juicy (!), than the other, more pracitcal and matter of fact angles on this. In fact very,  I'd better get outta here!!see ya in a errrr slightly more sober forum p'raps. : ) river. __________________ "Strong passions are the precious raw materials of sanctity" Fulton Sheen |
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Grand Member
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Mar 24, 2008 at 05:16 PM
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I'm jumping into this thread really late, but I just have one kinda embarrassing question.
I have never, ahem, finished with oral. I've tried but I just can't get him...there. It takes too long. So of course never swallowed since I never get to that point. Is that...bad? Question to the guys out there...is it still good if she goes down there but doesn't finish? |
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Grand Magnate
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Mar 24, 2008 at 05:46 PM
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Like a great kiss,,it is the journey,,not the destination.
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Wise Elder
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Mar 24, 2008 at 07:36 PM
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As a female - I think most males like knowing that you are willing to go down on them and if they don't complete the cycle - they are always open to finishing in one of many other satisfying ways.......
 If I might suggest - try using your hand on the shaft of the penis (moving up & down) while you tantilize the head of the penis with your mouth...... don't forget to throw in a few deep throats, if you can. Question: How long do you practice oral sex before you decide that you will not be able to bring him to completion? |
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Magnate
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Mar 24, 2008 at 07:49 PM
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thats not bad. i think for a lot of guys they know what they could be having, so head isnt as satisfying. but ive also had guys say that sometimes they prefer head over sex.
luckily we have been together long enough that i can stop when im tired and say "are you about done? cause my jaw is starting to hurt" lol. try doing it in a different position so it doesnt get to be so tiring. |
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