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Wise Elder
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Mar 24, 2008 at 08:01 PM
#101
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salukigirl said: i can stop when im tired and say "are you about done? cause my jaw is starting to hurt" lol. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I hear YOU - lol. ....................................... 
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Elder
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Mar 24, 2008 at 08:52 PM
#102
my wifes same complaint and she has a small mouth and I have a really big nose....
you know what they say about the size of a mans nose in comparison to his 
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Poohbah
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Mar 24, 2008 at 09:48 PM
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My wife tends to get a sore jaw and so she never "finishes" me. And I can honestly say, it's never once bothered me as we always move to another activity.
Unless your hubby is expressing some dissatisfaction, I wouldn't worry about it. Cyran0 __________________ My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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Grand Poohbah
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Mar 25, 2008 at 05:19 PM
#104
I love everything about oral just wish I had more opportunity
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Magnate
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Mar 25, 2008 at 06:36 PM
#105
is this thread making anyone else hot? lol
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Mar 25, 2008 at 06:49 PM
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Cyran0 said: Unless your hubby is expressing some dissatisfaction, I wouldn't worry about it. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Well....uhm....that's the problem. I can't get him to "express" anything to me about ANYTHING related to sex. I try to ask what he wants, I get a whole lot of "I don't know", or "whatever you want" kind of answers. I have no idea what is wrong or what he wants or what he DOESN'T want because HE.WILL.NOT.TELL.ME!!!! It drives me nuts. I try to talk to him but I just get embarrassed about it. And the dumb thing is - he can crack crude jokes all the time with his friends or when we're watching TV or anything. But when it comes to the actual thing...he is clueless. And I've been with him for almost 8 years!!! It's just so frustrating. |
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Wisest Elder Ever
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Mar 25, 2008 at 08:29 PM
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Elder
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Mar 25, 2008 at 09:01 PM
#108
gee...
one mom wants more opportunity one is getting hot reading this thread one cant get her hubby to tell her what he wants I MARRIED THE WRONG WOMAN! |
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Magnate
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Mar 25, 2008 at 10:53 PM
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i dont think he can really tell you what he wants... unless he has done it before. no guy has ever been able to tell me what they want. apparently i just have a natural ability. doesnt hurt that my gag reflex has apparently been suppressed lol. so usually the problem for me is the other way around. haha. at least tap me on the shoulder! sorry.... im done haha
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Mar 25, 2008 at 11:14 PM
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Brian37 said: gee... one mom wants more opportunity one is getting hot reading this thread one cant get her hubby to tell her what he wants I MARRIED THE WRONG WOMAN! </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> 
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Poohbah
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Mar 26, 2008 at 10:33 AM
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Yup, this thread can get a little umm, arousing. But we're all grown ups here so I'm sure we can handle it.
Here's the thing about guys. Unless there's a favorite activity (or god forbid a fetish) we're just pretty much thrilled to be having sex. We're like a little kid who gets to go to Disney world. We don't care what ride we go on first, we're just thrilled to finally be going. We spend a vast amount of our waking hours fantasizing about you being willing to so much as touch us, anywhere, in any way, so when it comes down to it, we'll take anything so long as it feels good (watch the teeth, no sandpaper, etc.). In the end, we're much more concerned with how to get you off as we really want you to enjoy sex and we've seen government bureaucracies with more transparency than the strange labyrinthine systems required to get you to orgasm. Oh, and for us this is all until it gets boring and predictable but man we have to be having lots of sex before that happens. Then changing it up is good. Cyran0 __________________ My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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Magnate
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Mar 26, 2008 at 12:20 PM
#112
its not difficult for all women to orgasm. i didnt even know what an orgasm was tile a few years ago and when i had one i went "holy crap! thats what ive been missing!" so for about 3 years i never knew what an orgasm was. then i learned. now you could set your watch by it. i learned how to get there once so now its a patented move everytime lol
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Elder
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Mar 26, 2008 at 12:27 PM
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Legendary
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Mar 26, 2008 at 03:41 PM
#114
I can't get my hubby to tell me either. will not talk about sex. at least his fantasies. he says he doesn't have any. what?? a man with no fantasy?
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Mar 26, 2008 at 03:49 PM
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[quoteHere's the thing about guys. Unless there's a favorite activity (or god forbid a fetish) we're just pretty much thrilled to be having sex. We're like a little kid who gets to go to Disney world. We don't care what ride we go on first, we're just thrilled to finally be going.
We spend a vast amount of our waking hours fantasizing about you being willing to so much as touch us, anywhere, in any way, so when it comes down to it, we'll take anything so long as it feels good (watch the teeth, no sandpaper, etc.). In the end, we're much more concerned with how to get you off as we really want you to enjoy sex </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Maybe for MOST guys....but not mine. That's what makes it even more irritating. He doesn't fit the 'stereotype' of a man. HE JUST DOES NOT WANT SEX....period. I don't know why. Maybe he's gay. Maybe he's asexual. Maybe he was abused. Maybe it's boring for him. Maybe I'm just no good. Maybe I got too fat and now I'm unattractive to him. Maybe this maybe that...I can go on for ages. All I know is...I hate it. We average about 8-10 times a year, or less. Sexless marriage by definition. And we've only been married 3 years! Been together 8 eyars total, and the sex has been this bad since maybe the 2nd year. |
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Mar 26, 2008 at 03:55 PM
#116
arghhhhhhhhhhhh
where were all these horny women when i was single ! |
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Mar 26, 2008 at 05:37 PM
#117
razzle you and I are in the same boat I guess! when hubby finally does have sex with me he seems to really love it! but just getting him to is another thing. I know he isn't gay though.
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Mar 26, 2008 at 06:39 PM
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bebop - i totally understand you. i beg for something different and just cant get anything out of him! he wont tell me what he wants because hes afraid that ill get mad i guess. ive told him mine. and after a while it gets boring doing the same thing over and over. but hes afraid to do anything different.
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Mar 26, 2008 at 08:14 PM
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 stop it already!.......i cant take it anymore! |
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Poohbah
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Mar 26, 2008 at 08:14 PM
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I'm with Brian on this one. When it comes to sex I'm the one who wants it, I'm the one who shares desires and fantasies, and I too find myself thinking, "man I wish my wife felt this way."
Ah well. Saluki, I will say this, my wife doesn't have the orgasm problem either. She knows how to get herself there and pretty much always makes it. I guess what the women are saying here disproves the assumption that every guy is obsessed with sex and perpetually lost in fantasy. I, on the other hand, have had 1,267,973 sexual fantasies in the time it took to type this. Cyran0 __________________ My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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