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#126
Mar 27, 2008, 06:19 PM
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haha you seem awfully horny for viagra? lol
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#127
Mar 27, 2008, 08:04 PM
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elsqueelio said: i was having a discussion with friends the other day and we were all torn on the spit/swallow argument... anyway if ppl could i would like to get an idea of others views of if swallowing is way too foul and shouldnt be done (which is what a lot of my friends thought) </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Giving oral sex to a man? or Giving oral sex to a woman? |
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#128
Mar 28, 2008, 02:05 AM
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wow this has had a lot of comments since the original post...
brian i must say u are funny the questioned i asked jennie was in relations to giving oral to a guy |
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#129
Mar 28, 2008, 08:24 AM
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well laughter is the best medicine.....
its kinda funny how we are all battling the demons of mental health issues, but we can freely express our sexual health and get a good laugh here and there out of it..... my wife has become so asexual due to various reasons.....I get a bit jealous when I hear the women complain about their asexual hubbys |
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#130
Mar 28, 2008, 08:35 AM
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brian let me kind of explain me....I was married to a man much older than me at one time. a very sexual older man I might add. he thought I was his punching bag at times. I worked very hard in our marriage. it got to the point I did not want sex with him. we of course divorced when I was in my 20's. I became sexual after that. when I hit my 40's it was on then! lol you know women hit their peaks at 40ish. I think sexual is a state of mind. if things are good we want it..if they are bad we don't.
 hope that helps explain at least me. although it does not explain why my hubby has lost his mojo! hehe
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#131
Mar 28, 2008, 09:09 AM
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my wife will be 34 next month....come on 40!
"krikey,i've lost my mojo!" |
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#132
Mar 28, 2008, 10:45 AM
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Brian37 said: my wife will be 34 next month....come on 40! </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Brian - at 34 yers old your wife should most likely still be very interested in having / enjoying sex...... therefore, I wonder and I have to ask? - WHY is she NOT? |
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#133
Mar 28, 2008, 10:51 AM
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shes on the pill ( hormonal)
thyroid issues fibro/CFS post-partum shes going to switch birth control soon (praying), her doc said she needs to lay off the pill due to the hormones were thinking IUD she just started on Deplin and I think some of her mojo is coming back..... other than that i dont know....maybe im just super horny |
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#134
Mar 28, 2008, 10:56 AM
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Sorry to hear that as I know all to well how health issues can be harsh on the old desire....
 Can I ask? - are the any emotional reasons as to why she may not feel sexual with you.... just asking from a womans pov when sex is not wanted as much. BTW - how old is the baby? - as this is a big sex down fall for many women...... time is the solution here. |
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#135
Mar 28, 2008, 11:14 AM
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Brian37 said: well laughter is the best medicine..... its kinda funny how we are all battling the demons of mental health issues, but we can freely express our sexual health and get a good laugh here and there out of it..... </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I know what you mean. It's a little ironic I guess...I really don't have any trouble talking about sex, even the specifics like this. So then why was I so upset about my shrink....ugh I don't know. I can tell a total stranger on the internet that I've never finished oral but when my therapist asked the same question I thought he was harassing me. |
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#136
Mar 28, 2008, 11:32 AM
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Razzleberry said: I can tell a total stranger on the internet that I've never finished oral but when my therapist asked the same question I thought he was harassing me. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Nope - He was honestly trying to help you..... funny how we look at our T at times. |
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#137
Mar 28, 2008, 11:52 AM
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Rhapsody said:Nope - He was honestly trying to help you..... funny how we look at our T at times. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Uh...not so sure. It was more than that. I'll spare you the details unless you've read my other posts. Anyhoo...just saying it's a little ironic that I really don't have a problem discussing those types of things, but I just felt like it was none of his business... Kinda hard to explain. Great, now I'm second-guessing it again. Maybe I did just take things the wrong way and he didn't mean anything...wrong. I don't know!!! |
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#138
Mar 28, 2008, 04:16 PM
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New subject maybe on this topic..... do men in general enjoy going down on a woman?
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#139
Mar 28, 2008, 07:24 PM
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#140
Mar 28, 2008, 08:00 PM
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Razzleberry first thought best thought. While it was happening you were picking up clues in voice inflection, phrasing of questions, visual cues, etc. I wouldnt second guess myself now.
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#141
Mar 28, 2008, 08:01 PM
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absolutely
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#142
Mar 28, 2008, 11:38 PM
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If she seems to be enjoying it, yes, I love to go down on a woman. Anything I can do that is sexually satisfying to her is a turn on to me.
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#143
Mar 30, 2008, 12:05 AM
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I truly believe all men deserve a bj on his birthday. But I have issues from my childhood which make it not so easy to do without the gag reflex and bad memories. My only solution is get drunk, then I'm quite into it. I'm not a drinker so that can be a problem too. My hubby says I owe him a few bj's...his birthday is coming in May.
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#144
Mar 30, 2008, 12:06 AM
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do a lot of guys not like going down on girls? Ive dated some guys who LOVED it and some guys who refused. Its not like I like giving head but I still do it. Typically I do it 5-7 days a month lol. I always take it personally if a guy doesnt want to go down on me.
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#145
Mar 30, 2008, 12:12 AM
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salukigirl said: do a lot of guys not like going down on girls? Ive dated some guys who LOVED it and some guys who refused. Its not like I like giving head but I still do it. Typically I do it 5-7 days a month lol. I always take it personally if a guy doesnt want to go down on me. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I think if a partner doesn't like it it's because of lack of communication. Reminds me of the movie CHASING AMY where the character Banky explains the problem how chicks never give status updates of a guy's performance in oral sex. |
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#146
Mar 31, 2008, 01:45 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
salukigirl said: Typically I do it 5-7 days a month lol. I always take it personally if a guy doesnt want to go down on me. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Cyran0 picks up his own jaw. 5 to 7 times a month? *gulp* That's, umm, generous. And umm, wow... I think some guys get turned off to going down due to a bad experience. Either someone was particularly nasty down there or the girl didn't seem to like it and made the guy self conscious. Not having a vagina, we're completely guessing what feels good down there and if a guy decides he doesn't know what to do, he'll just refuse (he sure as hell wont admit to needing directions). I wish my wife liked it more (she assures me it's just not her thing and it has nothing to do with my technique...Now if you girls are smirking and thinking "yeah right", please don't tell me as I'm paranoid on this front already) as I'd happily do it more often. K. Feeling self conscious now. But I swear I've had girlfriends in the past who really liked it and umm, yeah, I'm sure my technique is fine. Cyran0
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My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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#147
Mar 31, 2008, 01:54 PM
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DANG...I dont even get sex 5 to 7 times a freakin YEAR.....let alone oral...for either of us.
 Ok...'nuff complaining. At least my husband is a nice guy and a good father i should be happy for what i got right... |
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#148
Apr 03, 2008, 07:51 AM
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Cyran0 like ur wife im not into guys going down on me im happy always giving them as many BeeJays as they desired..
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#149
Apr 03, 2008, 07:43 PM
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he says its because he had tried it before and the girl said he wasn't good.
i really don't notice if it never happens. i cant go that way anyways, so it's nothing spectacular on my end. so i don't think its always because the person is bad at it. ive had to ask guys to stop before because they were so bad lol. and they loved doing it! and im just thinking "god.... is this ever going to go anywhere? I feel like im in a continuous loop of mediocrity!" do you think she would tell you if it was because you were bad? My thinking is that, if she does like it, she would probably rather hurt your feelings once and tell you how youre doing it wrong, than go the rest of her life w/o it. so she's probably telling the truth. |
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#150
Apr 03, 2008, 09:27 PM
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Yup, that's what I tell myself when I cry myself to sleep at night.
 Cyran0
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