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Aug 27, 2019 at 07:04 PM
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Can oral sex become a fetish or perhaps an obsession? I'll explain. I'm 41 years old and married. My wife and I haven't had sex in over 5 years. I feel ashamed and perhaps uncomfortable for craving this sexual act. For some reason or another, I find oral sex (women going down on men) fascinating. My experiences have been clearly... less satisfying. No, I am not bi-sexual nor am I gay. I can not understand this desire and for some reason, I've been ashamed to feel this way. I am seeking sexual counseling, but she's not... well, let's just say that she has no idea why I'm the way I am. I'm not allowed to discuss oral sex with my wife, I'm not allowed to ask for it (mainly because I don't know how to ask) I'm beginning to think that oral sex is only made for dirty movies. But for much of my life, I have anguished over my body's inability to respond to oral sex because I feel that it makes me a freak, and my inability to enjoy it (when I was much younger and dating). So why does my body not respond to oral sex?
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