Dreaming about affair with ex husband

I've had two dreams about sleeping with my ex husband who is married. I tried looking it up on a dream interpretation. But fact is I'm getting really horny. Dating isn't going anywhere really. Either getting guys who just want to hook up or chat forever nothing serious and I'm wanting serious. I avoid hookups. And think i just miss safer times. He was a safe guy.

Usually or dreams are not as straight forward as we assume. It probably has nothing to do with a desire of your ex but just a desire of sex. Maybe he was the most memorable, but I'm sure you're far past him.