Explicit Topic: Orgasm

Women . . . have you ever experienced female ejaculation? If so, what were your feelings about it?

Men . . . have you ever witnessed female partner ejaculate? If so, what were your feelings?

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Hey this is a little embarrassing for me.

The reason I ask these questions is I have experienced this, and initially it was quite disturbing for me. However, now I am beginning to accept this as a natural phenomena.

I was sexually abused as a child and have serious issues with experiencing any sexual pleasure in general. The potential of me ejaculating during sex makes me even more uncomfy, to the point of sexual frigidity.

I wonder if other women also fear orgasm because of ejaculation fluid?

seen it on video

never witnessed it in my wife

I have never experienced it that I know of but I do get really hmmmm moist let's say. not as much as I use to but I would expect that at my age.

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jennie said:
I wonder if other women also fear orgasm because of ejaculation fluid?

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I have had female ejaculation for a few years now and while I do not fear orgasm due to it - I do not necessarily care for it as I feel more like I am peeing in bed than that of having an extra plus to my sexual experience..... but my husband seems to get a thrill from it, when it happens.

I do and I embrace it as a gift. A lot of women are capable of doing it with the right touch in the right place. It is very intense and wonderful.

Never, for me. Seen it on porno stuff...

I rarely O...at all. Let alone getting that far. So don't count me in as normal...

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Rhapsody said:

I have had female ejaculation for a few years now and while I do not fear orgasm due to it - I do not necessarily care for it as I feel more like I am peeing in bed than that of having an extra plus to my sexual experience..... but my husband seems to get a thrill from it, when it happens.

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Thanks Rhapsody! My hubby has never seen it per se but swears to me that he'll love it. :O

This thread has really helped me. THANK YOU EVERYONE!

Wow - I've never met anyone who can do that (at least, it's never come up in conversation...). I was interested to read that it happened (Rhap) later in life. I always thought it had to do with one's anatomical structure - not something that could change over time.

Well, I'm sorry that you're experiencing feelings of discomfort about this Jennie. I'm glad that your husband is open to it. I imagine things would be different if he weren't, or if one was single and felt the need to forewarn.

The point is - you're having orgasms and they probably feel good. If you were my partner, I'd say not to sweat it - it's sexy on someone you are trying to please.

Cheers Jennie,
LMo

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LMo said:
Wow - I've never met anyone who can do that (at least, it's never come up in conversation...).

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Exactly! How many women talk about this??? I have never heard of a woman talk about this in person. Until this thread, I hadn't read of any woman admitting to this.

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bebop said:
I have never experienced it that I know of but I do get really hmmmm moist let's say. not as much as I use to but I would expect that at my age.

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I'd guess you are ejaculating but it's not too overt. That's how mine started before I realized how to repeat it. G spot hardens and pressure is felt before the release of fluid. It can happen several times. It's a really confusing feeling.

Well sometimes you have to put a towel under you so you don't have to sleep in a wet spot all night. It has to do with your G spot. There are actually dildos that come with a special part to reach that special spot,and certain positions that focus on that part too. Having both kinds of orgasms is really amazing and sometimes for it it is easier to climax with the g spot than the clitoris.

also some women can climax during intercourse alone, I can, but it is because of the G spot, not the clitoris. And being mulit orgasmic, I sometimes wear myself out in a good way.

I haven't had one of those fantastic Gspot O's in a very very long time lol dang it! lol

it can be about anatomy. at least... that is one theory. the fluid comes from a gland and the thought is that some women have a smaller gland opening so less of it gets released. the wiki article said that at any rate...

I have experienced it on occasion... I am open to it and so is hubby... He said it excites him to see it happen... For a long time I just thought I was "peeing" and didnt address it, until it came up in a conversation with some friends, LOL then i was like phew!!

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SerenitysWave said:
I have experienced it on occasion... I am open to it and so is hubby... He said it excites him to see it happen... For a long time I just thought I was "peeing" and didnt address it, until it came up in a conversation with some friends, LOL then i was like phew!!

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Thanks for sharing SerenitysWave.

No, I really dont have much of any fluids at all during orgasm, very very little and it dont shoot out or anything.

I never even heard of female ejaculation till years after I've been having sex. It's a strange phenomenon really. I have friends who have told me they do....thought maybe I was a weirdo because I didn't. I'm more normal then I thought on this issue, based on the poll here.

Does anybody here openly discuss sex with your closest friends? Or is it a personal thing?

I will talk about sex with anyone if they want to lol. I am a very open minded person and nothing really bugs me but no I have never had an orgasim where I ejaculate. Shame I am sure I would enjoy it, although as someone said earlier I get very very wet and I also have very intense orgasims maybe I am ejaculating and not realiseing it lol who knows.