[jalover21]

so i love my bf so so much we been going on 4 months! i know 4 months and we are long distance and its hard to keep up because we live different lives but we are a whole when we talk. I just wish i could do more with him but i have like 3 years or more to me and i know we can last forever but im afraid it wont! is there any advice anyone can give me to keep my long distance going and never fail? oh and psych16m is my boyfriend!

[RomanSunburn]

If it's any consolation, I've been in an LDR for roughly 2 and a half years (though there was a period of time where we werent even speaking for a few months). We still have a year to go before we can even think about moving in together. The best advice I have for you is to relax, dont try to control the relationship. Take each day as it comes, and try not to stress about the future too much. If things are meant to be, then somehow, things will work out. I also find little things throughout the day really help, like my boyfriend will send me a text every few days just to tell me he misses me and loves me. That really makes my day, especially since we're so far apart and texting is like $1.50 per a message. Try to talk everyday, but if you can't dont worry about it. Dont get obsessive, if you can. (Been there, done that, nearly lost him, whole nine yards...) I guess that's all I can think of for right now, but if you want to PM me, feel free. LDR's are hard, I know, but they DO work, regardless of those who say they dont (No offense to anyone who thinks that!)

Best of luck, and congratulations!
Ro

[BalishBun]

Well it is tough to have a long distance relationship, sometimes they work sometimes they dont. But if there is 100% commitment on both of your parts, then it should work. You cannot have 76% and 100% commitment, it has to be equal.