women after sex

My question is pretty straightforward:

"Why do women always leave so early after sex (ashamed of what they did?) and most of the time it even looks like they are sneaking out of the place (do it so quietly, as to not be noticed by anyone) where they just had sex few hours ago?"

Thank you for explaining that to me.
Women input would be much appreciated.
Have a great day.

Well now, that is a massive generalization and judgement to make. Are you asking this question for your own problems or as research? We do have a sexual issues forum if you need help and support.

ummm peg this is the sexual issues forum lol


as for why women leave so soon? maybe they don't want guys to see what they look like in the morning. messed up hair, no makeup, lol

It was in the General forum Bebop!

I do have to agree with pegasus in asking if it is for research, since your profile indicates that's why you're here. I'd have to agree that's quite a generalization, too. If you could give us more information to help us understand better, that would be good. Also, welcome to pc!

I agree. I dont leave really soon after sex with my boyfriend. Even after one night stands Ive stayed with the person and left the next morning or had them leave.

I know for me, after sex I get extremely hyper and feel really pumped so I always feel like doing something productive after sex. But that doesn't equate to leaving the scene early. I don't think all women do this. It does sound like a hasty generalization.

Like a great meal served...seconds are a complement to the chef(s)....

That is all I have to say about that...

Lenny

on-topic:

sounds like it to me, too.

i've also heard the statement in the original post said about guys.

would also like more details in order to answer the question..

off-topic:

sheesh. i haven't laughed this hard in a while.

- twilight

peg oh lol didn't see it in general! I must have still been sleeping lol.

Lenny hahahahaha

I have to admit, the original question as worded makes it sound like the person asking it is doing something wrong!

> "Why do women always leave so early after sex (ashamed of what they did?) and most of the time it even looks like they are sneaking out of the place (do it so quietly, as to not be noticed by anyone) where they just had sex few hours ago?"

do you mean why do the women who you have slept with always do that?

maybe it has something to do with the situation / circumstances in which you find yourself having sex with a woman (e.g., picking people up in bars or something like that). maybe... they got caught up in the moment (drugs, alchohol) and... they actually do regret having done that... perhaps...

I agree with the above. I don't think it is at all uncommon for people to 'slink out' after a one night stand. It's pretty much a foregone conclusion that the sole purpose of a one night stand is just to have sex. Once that is done, many people (male and female) have no desire to relate to the other person further.

Howerver, if you were in a relationship and it was your *girlfriend* who slunk out every morning, I'd start to look at a ltitle closer at the relationship!

hey nada1971 welcome to pc.. i think maybe ur question may need some more explanation to clear it up for ppl so we can answer you better. thanks

Huh? Men are the ones who leave so soon! Women are all "dawww let's cuddle". but yeah, if I had to put my bet on something it would be that we didn't want the guy to see our morning-face... mascara on our cheeks, hair standing straight up etc lol
And plus, if you've just banged someone insignificant - why spend the night? I'd rather go sleep in my own bed than listen to his snoring. The golden rule of a one night stand is: You do not spend the night!

wish I could have some input, however my only sexual partner is my wife and while we were dating neither of us wanted to leave after the night was over

then again I thought men were the ones who grabbed their drawers and fled the scence of the crime?

men are such pigs!

Do you mean after causual sex or when you are in a relationship.

I know it only from a normal relationship- and i - maybe this will surprise you - don`t leave that early.

I will answer the question with out thinking that you are generalizing all woman.... and leave it that you are talking from your pov within life and nothing else.

I personally have never walked out on a guy after having sex, as I like to cuddle and enjoy my after glow for as long as I can - and would like to say my goodbyes face to face until we meet again.

Now for the females that leave in the middle of the night with out saying goodbye (like their male counter parts may do some times) - I would have to say that it probably due to the fact that the place they just had sex in is not their own and people are more comfortable in their own home, therefore, when they wake up they quietly leave without having to disturb the person that is still sleeping.

2nd possible reason... it was a one night stand and they do not wish to see you again.