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Mar 08, 2009 at 02:35 AM
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that sex just isn't what it's cracked up to be, ime.
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Mar 08, 2009 at 09:17 PM
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 If I may ask? - How did you think sex would be? |
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Mar 09, 2009 at 06:35 PM
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sorry you are feeling so rotton. Hopefully some day you won't be so frustrated with sex. If you'd like to talk just PM me. Take care and keep writting.
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Mar 11, 2009 at 07:07 PM
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You should focus on doing whatever you enjoy doing. Don't let your partner pressure you into any activity that isn't fun for you.
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Mar 12, 2009 at 05:02 AM
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I would read up on the net and find out what I like or change your partner cos it can be great.
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Apr 15, 2009 at 07:44 PM
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Just wondering this. Why do you guys talk about your sex life on these boards? Shouldn't this stuff be private. Do we all really need to know your business? Sorry, but just had to say this.
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Apr 15, 2009 at 08:39 PM
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some people need advise but more than that it is a place to come for support and understanding in this dept. good thing is there is a computer screen between us all so it is still kind of private IMO.
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Apr 16, 2009 at 07:23 AM
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men are hard wired for sex....its not us, its nature...and it isnt going to change any time soon....
read the book "His Needs, Her Needs"....good reading for any couple ive enjoyed getting female responses from females, so thats why I write about it plus good sexual health is paramount to good mental health |
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Apr 16, 2009 at 12:25 PM
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Hi Sadseeker,
I hope you're not comparing your performance to the people you see in porn videos because they aren't accurate depictions of real life. If you're depressed then that could also affect your enthusiam. Have you always felt this way or is it just with this person.? Don't compare yourself to what you think it should be like -just do what feels good to you and your partner. Take care. 
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Apr 16, 2009 at 10:58 PM
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Apr 17, 2009 at 12:56 PM
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As long as it's kept in designated forum I think it's another great outlet created by PC. If you want to keep yours private then do so. If you don't like knowing about it then don't read it...the forum clearly states "sex & gender issues" |
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Apr 19, 2009 at 02:26 PM
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It's called private messages people.
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Apr 19, 2009 at 02:33 PM
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Jun 07, 2009 at 09:32 PM
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i come here to get help and sometimes to see that others have the same or similiar issues. This lets me know that i am not alone and that their may be a solution i might have missed. I haye learned a lot from this board. I do understand you not wanting to read the personal parts of people's sex lives, but for some of us, this is the only safe place in a group atmosphere where we can talk about our sexuality.
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