frustrated

that sex just isn't what it's cracked up to be, ime.

Sorry you are feeling this way......
If I may ask? - How did you think sex would be?

sorry you are feeling so rotton. Hopefully some day you won't be so frustrated with sex. If you'd like to talk just PM me. Take care and keep writting.

You should focus on doing whatever you enjoy doing. Don't let your partner pressure you into any activity that isn't fun for you.

I would read up on the net and find out what I like or change your partner cos it can be great.

Just wondering this. Why do you guys talk about your sex life on these boards? Shouldn't this stuff be private. Do we all really need to know your business? Sorry, but just had to say this.

some people need advise but more than that it is a place to come for support and understanding in this dept. good thing is there is a computer screen between us all so it is still kind of private IMO.

men are hard wired for sex....its not us, its nature...and it isnt going to change any time soon....

read the book "His Needs, Her Needs"....good reading for any couple

ive enjoyed getting female responses from females, so thats why I write about it

plus good sexual health is paramount to good mental health

Hi Sadseeker,
I hope you're not comparing your performance to the people you see in porn videos because they aren't accurate depictions of real life. If you're depressed then that could also affect your enthusiam. Have you always felt this way or is it just with this person.? Don't compare yourself to what you think it should be like -just do what feels good to you and your partner. Take care.

IMO - the best way to receive advice and /or support is to open up about the problem at hand..... even if the topic is sex.

Because sex is another part of life that can effect your mental health.
As long as it's kept in designated forum I think it's another great outlet created by PC. If you want to keep yours private then do so. If you don't like knowing about it then don't read it...the forum clearly states "sex & gender issues"

It's called private messages people.

actually no this is a community forum, not a private message

if ya don't like it don't read

i come here to get help and sometimes to see that others have the same or similiar issues. This lets me know that i am not alone and that their may be a solution i might have missed. I haye learned a lot from this board. I do understand you not wanting to read the personal parts of people's sex lives, but for some of us, this is the only safe place in a group atmosphere where we can talk about our sexuality.