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Apr 04, 2009, 03:07 PM
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hi
I am newbee here I need some suggestioin from the experienced persons I completed my 7th marriage anniversary recently, I love my husband a lot and I thinks he loves me too. We have 5 years twins boys. We are not having any financial or health problems yet. I dont know why my husband not showing interest upon me as before and in sexusal life too. He is a cool guy and never hurts anybody but whenever I need him he is not interest to listen me and always he is making me guilty by saying the negative points in me why he is behaving like this I cant digest his new behaviour how can I get rid of this we both are in good jobs and doing well in our jobs First, I thought by ignoring his words and him I can get some mental peace atleast, but How can I ignore him I love hime so much. And he is not not having any badhabits then why he is ignoring me i dont know Can anybody give me a good idea to handle this problem thanks |
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Apr 06, 2009, 12:13 AM
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Is he ignoring you in the every day to day routine? - or is it just on a sexual bases?
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Apr 06, 2009, 05:44 AM
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You say he never hurts anyone, so I assume you mean physically, because he does seem to be hurting you emotionally. If he's criticizing you, that's hurtful.
Have you told him how you feel? Perhaps he doesn't realize he's changed. Try asking him why he's no longer interested in sex. Maybe he'd like you to do something new for him, like dressing in something sexy that you either haven't before, or haven't for a while. Maybe he has a fantasy? Ask him if that would help. (That said, don't do anything you're too uncomfortable to do. Your feelings count, too.)
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Apr 06, 2009, 11:27 AM
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he is just ignoring me in sexual bases. But he supports me at all times in my personal things and gives good suggestions too. I think he cant catch my feelings |
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Apr 06, 2009, 11:30 AM
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criticizing means he tell the every negative point in me but not in positive way. I tried a lot to be as he likes, but slip on slip goes on what can I do |
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Apr 07, 2009, 09:46 PM
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Has he been upset with you about any thing lately or with in the last six months? |
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Apr 08, 2009, 06:22 AM
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hi,newbee,
me a 39 year old male marrid for 10 years.I think i can try to understand the thing you are going through.As we get more involved in the tangles of life,we lose interest in many things which once might have been our passion.Sex is one of those things.Better you try to know if anything in his job or in his career troubles him,or he is trying hard to fight back some problem he is facing..trouble in mind troubles sex,I believe.Similarly,think on your part too in the same terms,i.e.isnt it that something troubles you and you are not responding cold in bed..Furthermore,go for longer foreplay and add whatever new to it,e.g.new postures,new gestures,new ways to rub and pat and touch..and,yes,start when you are sure it wouldnt be disturbed by any of your kids..its very important.. |
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