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Aug 27, 2009, 11:44 PM
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For the past 2 weeks every single night I have had a nightmare about my ex girlfriend.
In some dreams she is on a date with her new boyfriend In others she is yelling at me and hating me Some she is just doing sexual stuff with other guys All of them are horrible though and I wake up to a bad start This has been a terrible problem and I wake up practically everyday crying. I need this to stop. Please give me advice. |
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Aug 28, 2009, 01:36 PM
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Do you have a dream catcher? You can hang that on your headboard so it catches all the bad dreams so you dont have them, I love mine, I suffered for over a year with horrible dreams.
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Aug 28, 2009, 02:28 PM
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How long ago did you and your girlfriend break up? You could still be suffering from the break up. Or you could go with another dream theory that dreams are what you really want, and you want her to move on and be happy. It may be hard to see but it might be what you want. You should try and ask yourself honestly how you still feel about her.
I hope your nights and sleep get better! Best of luck! |
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Sep 14, 2009, 02:18 AM
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coachllama,it sounds like you may be working through some issues re the breakup and seeing your ex move on. In time, you should work through these dreams and get through it. In the meantime, try some working-through, hard fact-facing re the relationship and it's termination during your waking hours. This may reduce the dreams. In recent years, I had repeatedly been having good dream of reconciliation with my ex-husband, but the relationship was so many years ago, that it was actually rediculous. I could not google his phone #, but the internet advised me of his birthday, I called his brother to ask him to wish my ex a happy birthday, and I could tell by his surprise and incredulity just how rediculous my dreams of a happy reconciliation were. The dreams stopped after that. I don't know which is worse: waking up from a bad dream, to realize that it's not real but does reflect some aspect of reality; or waking up from a wish-fulfilling dream to realize it's not real and never will be! Time Heals and Dreams Stop ~ Caring About You !~ billieJ
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